How much can you understand a woman at first sight? Well, the answer is invariably going to be a little or zilch. Often, love at first sight is based on physical appearance. While it is not half bad a reason, it cannot be everything to sustain a relationship in the long run. What if the girl you meet looks gorgeous and sexy but turns out to be dumb and a real nag? Would you call the relationship quits? For this you might as well understand someone better to make a decision; at least it would save you heartbreak. Love at first sight is an illusion; very tempting but not real. If this is not reason enough, then read further to learn why.
1.Beauty is short-lived
You notice a pretty thing at the supermarket or the library and find yourself falling for her. You try hard and make her notice you and finally earn yourself a date. The first date is brilliant; you are smitten and so is she impressed. Next comes subsequent dates; she has begun to whine, complain and talk about dumb things that you cannot relate with. Her beautiful looks remain but they no longer interest you. The relationship snaps even before it builds.
2.Undisclosed identity
Falling in love with a person of undisclosed identity is as unsafe as it is ridiculous. Women are not the only ones threatened by unsafe territories or people, men are equally vulnerable. Secondly, how do you know if the woman you are falling for is happily married to someone else or an anti-social element or perhaps someone with whom things are complicated or impossible?
3.The definition is wrong
Love refers to a deeper emotion that makes two individuals want to indulge in it. They can precisely understand what the other wants or dislikes, sometimes even without expressing it. When you see a woman and fall for her, it is called infatuation and not love. There is a line of difference between the two and it is important to understand the difference so as to avoid disappointments.
4.Your relationship is based on nothing
When two people are in love, they are considered to be in a relationship. And every relationship is a bond of faith, commitment, loyalty and understanding. When you fall in love at first sight, you neither understand each other nor can consider faith and commitment. Therefore, your relationship is built on nothing and how will such a bond endure?
