Monday, August 13, 2018

How to be a Happy Couple That’s Envied by All

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 Everyone likes happy couples, actually they envy them. So what does it take to be treated like one? Find out how to be a happy couple right here.

Happy couples are the epitome of romance.
Everyone wants to be them, and yet everyone hates them.
Do you want to be a happy couple who look so hot and happy it makes other lesser mortal couples stand away from their own partners in shame?
Well, there are ways.
Firstly, find out how to be happy in a relationship.
If you can’t be happy on the inside, there’s no way you’ll be able to rub any of that happy aura off on other couples.
And once you know how to really be happy, it’s time to share your love with the world, and rub it in.

How to be a happy couple
Letting the world know that you’re a happy couple is a lot like starting your own business.
You may be great at it, but it’s just no darn good unless you blow your own horn. Discreetly, of course!
Use these 12 happy couple tips and let the world know just how happy and sappy both of you actually are.

#1 Work out and walk out together. Working out together is great for many things. Both of you will live longer and look better, a lot better. And the best part, regular workouts will make your skin glow with endorphin radiance.
When both of you walk down the street holding hands, both of you would look like two full grown Jesus babies, what with all that light emanating from both of your faces. If that doesn’t look blissfully happy, what does? 

#2 Get cozy in public. Hold hands all the time and get cozy wherever you can. You’ll annoy other lovers around you. But they’ll still envy you. And you’ll feel happier. Yes, make other couples feel jealous and it’ll make you feel better about your own relationship. Get others talking about how close both of you are even after so many years, and it’ll make both of you feel even more closer.
But don’t go indulging in PDA before step #1. Both of you need to look good first to indulge in jealousy inducing public smooching. If you look like two slobby walruses on the rocks trying to hump each other, that’s never going to be a pretty sight for anyone.

#3 Compliment and thank each other all the time. You know your manners, so use them. Thank and compliment each other all the time, be it while passing the plate at an all-you-can-eat or while trying clothes at a store. Be even more complimentary and thankful when others are within earshot. And be most complimentary and affectionate to each other when there are other friendly couples who don’t know how to treat each other with respect. 
 You’ll feel a lot better about your own relationship. The other couple will squirm their feet and wish they could be as loving as you. And everyone learns a good lesson about manners and courtesy.

#4 Never wash your underwear in public. Don’t argue with your partner in front of others, even if your friends are trying to spark a funny fight between the two of you just to have some fun. Annoying and bitter friends love trying to create problems in a happy couple’s relationship. Don’t fall for their little ploy. Just smile and brush any problem away like nothing can come in between the two of you.

#5 Get cute and angry with each other. If anything bothers you about your partner when you’re out together, let your partner know about it. Smack your partner across their back lightly and get cute and angry, like you’re having fun. Don’t get angry, sad couples do that. Happy couples get cute, have a giggly smirk, and get naughty and angry.
Unhappy couples always have an eye on happy couples and try to find out what really keeps a happy couple happy. So don’t roll your eyes or try to speak in a hushed, sharp whisper when you get angry. Unhappy couples will notice that! 

#6 Have awesome sex. Yeah, sex is always right there at the top for happy couples. Most girls talk about how happy their sex lives are anyways, so let the word slip on how sexy and happy your sex life is. Almost always, there’ll be a few frowns and subdued angry faces around you, especially from the sad, unhappy lovers. And you’ll feel a lot happier about it! 

#7 Greet each other warmly. When you walk into each other at the end of the day, greet each warmly with a happy hello. And if both of you are meeting at a party or restaurant after work, walk really close to each other, stare into each other with an eye brightening, wide radiant smile and let time stop still for a few moments while saying hi to each other. The people around will hate you for being so darn happy and loving all the time.

#8 Don’t speak ill of each other. Do you ever feel like bitching about your partner to your friends? Hmm… are you sure you’re a happy couple? Or are you a poser unhappy couple pretending to be a happy couple?
Happy couples don’t have anything bad to speak about each other. They communicate and are always annoyingly happy. So avoid speaking ill of your partner, especially if it’s something silly and trivial.

#9 Be charming when you’re together. Charm isn’t just a trait that’s used to smooth talk the opposite sex. Charm is something that makes you look sexy and admirable. Behave like perfect hosts or guests when you go out together. Stand together in each other’s arms and awe all other couples with your wit, charm and charisma. You’ll definitely be a happy couple. And yes, all other couples will envy you for it.

#10 Call each other often. Keep your partner in the loop about your life. Avoid lying or sneaking behind your partner’s back. If a friend of yours knows more about your life than your partner, then this friend wouldn’t get envious or jealous. They’d feel superior and make you feel small.

#11 Indulge in romantic gestures. Buy little gifts for each other now and then to keep the romance alive. Indulge in happy gestures and treat each other with a lot of love and respect, no matter where you are. Always remember to give your partner the first preference, be it while listening to opinions while hanging out with friends or while pulling a chair back for the women around.

#12 Don’t brag about each other. Saying “you know… my boyfriend/girlfriend is the best boyfriend/girlfriend in the world” is so corny and wannabe. And when people hear that line, they’d just think you’re a lying braggart.
Happy couples never claim to be happy couples. Unhappy couples use that line to try and convince themselves that they’re in perfect relationship.
Avoid speaking highly of your partner’s romantic capabilities to others. Let others watch and make their own happy assumptions. And as long as you’re using all these tips here, they’d definitely be convinced deep inside that the both of you are the perfect definition of a happy couple. And yeah, they’ll hate you for it.


Sometimes, happiness is best experienced when you innocently rub it in and let others know just how perfect both of you are. Use these 12 tips on how to be a happy couple and both of you will be beaming with happiness all the time!
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12 Real Signs of True Love in a Relationship

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 True love is the true definition of a perfect romance. But it’s not easy to find. Do you see these 12 signs of true love in your own relationship? By Elizabeth Arthur

True love isn’t felt in a heartbeat or in a second glance.
True love takes time to take shape.
And contrary to popular belief, love at first sight isn’t really love at all.
In fact, love at first sight is nothing but an infatuation.
It’s a strong surge of romantic and sexual emotions that overwhelm you.
Before you wonder what true love is all about and what the signs of true love really are, you need to understand that it’s very important to take things slow in a relationship if you want to ensure its success.


When you first start dating someone or fall for someone at first sight, what you experience isn’t love.
As much as you feel like you’re head over heels in love, you really aren’t.
You’re just experiencing the first stage of love, a small part in the stages of love known as the infatuation stage.


What is true love then?
True love, ironically, can’t be defined.
It’s the kind of love many of us chase after, but few truly find or realize it until it’s too late. So what is true love really?
True love is the kind of love and affection you have for someone that isn’t bound by the laws of human behavior. Human behavior is simple to understand. When someone hurts you, you get angry with them. When someone gets lucky or gets a better job, you get jealous of them. And when someone shatters your ego or humiliates you, you want your revenge. This is human behavior, because these traits are engrained within us.
But when you experience true love with someone, your primal instincts and behavior change only towards this person. True love transcends typical human behavior. It makes you a better human being towards a special someone. 

When does one experience true love?
True love takes time to bloom. What you experience in the first year or so of a relationship is infatuation and sexual attraction.
As the bursts of infatuation start to fade with the first few arguments and the first few misunderstandings, that’s when love starts to enter the picture. And this is where most couples start to drift away emotionally, or even end up breaking up because of incompatibilities.
If you’re in a relationship where both of you truly understand each other and feel compatible with each other, and most importantly, love each other, chances are, you’re experiencing true love already. 

Experiencing true love in your life
Is true love a once in a lifetime experience? Not really. You can experience them many times over, and with many people at the same time. You can experience true love with your spouse or your lover, your children and any other person you’re attached to in your life.
But true love too, can fade with time. For most of us, our first love is the first time we would have experienced the purest form of true love. We aren’t afraid to let this special someone into our heart and we aren’t afraid to experience heartbreak because we still don’t know what heartbreak feels like. We’re fearless in love and we love passionately with all our heart. 

But when the first romance dies, the true love we had for our first partner too eventually fades, even if it takes years and several new relationships to overcome. And as we enter more relationships, most of us split into two groups. One that believes in true romantic love and the other group that convinces itself that true love doesn’t exist. The kind of relationships you’ve had in your lifetime can play a big part in your understanding of, and expectations from, true love.
And if you’re wondering whether true love and romantic love are the same, it really isn’t, even though we almost always associate true love with romantic love. True love is love in its purest form, while romantic love needs sexual attraction to stay alive. 

True love can’t be forced
True love has to be experienced naturally and wholeheartedly. You can’t fake true love no matter how hard you try. If a couple fails to pass the test of compatibility in their infatuation stage, it’s pretty hard for both of them to ever experience true love.
On the other hand, if both partners can understand each other and relate to each other, they’ll start to love each other’s company and start to become inseparable. And eventually, this bond will turn into a pure and selfless love that we call true love. 

The 12 signs of true love in a perfect romance
True love may be hard to define, but the signs to read true love can be clearly seen in every perfect loving relationship.
If you’re in a relationship and want to know if you’re experiencing the purest form of love, use these 12 signs of true love to find out for yourself.

#1 Give and take in love. You give to the relationship wholeheartedly, without any desire or expectations of getting something back in return from your partner to justify your actions.

#2 Pure happiness. Just watching this special person smile or laugh out loud fills you with intense happiness, even if you’re suffering or having a hard day.

#3 Pain and anger. You get terribly hurt when your lover upsets you, but their actions never anger you. You may get annoyed or frustrated now and then momentarily, but you just can’t stay mad at them for long because staying mad or giving them the silent treatment hurts you more. 

#4 Sacrifices. You make sacrifices for their happiness or wellbeing, even if they may never realize it.

#5 The right effort. You go to great lengths and make an effort to improve the relationship, and play a conscious part in trying to please your partner and make them feel loved and special.

#6 You can’t ever hurt them. When you’re truly in love with someone, you can’t even imagine hurting them, emotionally or physically. Payback is a strong human instinct, but true love makes you completely selfless.

#7 You keep your promises. When you make a promise to them, you stick to your word even if this person will never find out if you broke their promise. When you experience true love, your moral conscience becomes very strong when it comes to this one special person.

#8 We. In a perfect relationship, it’s good to have your own space to grow as individuals. But at the same time, if you truly love your partner, you’d see them as a part of your life. When you think of your future, you can’t help but see them by your side.

#9 You share their burden. And you do that even if you don’t really have to. You can’t bear to see this special someone suffering. If they’re dealing with some issue, you’re always willing to offer them a helping hand even when you have your own difficulties to look into.

#10 Pride and jealousy. You beam with pride when they achieve something, even if it’s the same thing you failed at. You may get jealous of a friend who outdid you, but when you love someone, jealousy never enters the picture.

#11 Suffering. You’d be willing to suffer, just to see them happy.

#12 Their perspective. Everything you do, you keep your lover in mind and think from their perspective, be it about planning a surprise party or hanging out with your own friends after work. You don’t ever want to hurt your lover, so you always think from their point of view before making any decision that involves them in any way.

Are you experiencing true love?
If you’re in a relationship and aren’t experiencing these true love signs, don’t fret. Perhaps, your relationship hasn’t reached the state of emotional maturity that surpasses physical attraction or the stage of infatuation.
Take your time and test the waters. You can’t fall in love with someone by forcing yourself into the relationship. If it’s not working out, try to understand each other better. And if nothing you do can bring happiness back into love, perhaps both of you would be better off dating other people. 

But at the same time, if both of you are already happy in the relationship, don’t try to change anything about it. Sometimes, selfless and unconditional love takes time to materialize. Remember, you can’t push yourself into the next stage in love unless both of you are ready for it.
As long as your lover and you are happy and understand each other, you’re already experiencing the perfect kind of love!


Use these 12 signs of true love to understand what true selfless love really means. And even if you’re not there yet, don’t worry about it. It’s only a matter of time before a happy romance goes the true love way!
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25 Really Romantic Ideas to Make Your Lover Melt!

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Want to wow your lover and express just how much you love them at the same time? Use these 25 really easy romantic ideas and you’ll do just that! By Alison Ricard

Before you fell in love, did you ever think that there would be a person in this world who could make you feel so happy and complete?
Did you ever realize that just making this person smile could bring so much happiness into your own life?
Love is a wonderful experience, because it’s the only emotion in the world that can bring you happiness when you give something away.

It’s the happy feeling that fills within you when you make the effort to please someone else without prioritizing your own interests, and putting their interests before yours.


Romantic ideas for couples in love
Every time we feel an overwhelming surge of affection for our lovers, we want to do something special for them, just to let them know how much they mean to us and how much we care about them.
And as the months and years pass by in the relationship, you may start to take each other for granted, or start to believe that excessive shows of affection in love is just corny.

But you need to change this now. Just because you’ve been in love for several years doesn’t mean you have to stop expressing your love through romantic gestures. 
Remember, the more often you try to please your lover or show them just how much you care through your gestures, the happier you’ll feel. And the love for each other too, will bloom into a perfect romance that’ll fill both your lives with happiness and meaning.

Why do we need more romance in our lives?
The ones who don’t experience true love are almost always the ones who always put their own needs before the needs of their lover. The more selfish you are, and the more you ask what you can get in return for your effort before you do something for your lover, the smaller the odds of finding true blissful love.
Open your heart, and indulge in sweet romantic moments every now and then. Use these romantic ideas and awe your lover. And just when their lips spread into a happy smile as they look into your eyes, you’d realize your effort was all so worth it! 

25 easy and sweet romantic ideas to make your lover melt
The next time you feel an overwhelming rush of happy love and just want to express all of that to your lover, use these 25 romantic ideas.
These romantic tips will surely help both of you feel more connected and it’ll help improve communication and bring both of you a lot closer too!

#1 Romantic vacations. Nothing beats a good romantic or exciting vacation to bring the rush of romance back into our lives. If you can afford it, make time to plan at least one vacation with each other every year. It’ll create new memories and make your lives more exciting too.

#2 Candlelight dinner. You can plan a candlelight dinner at home, or spend an evening at a cozy restaurant. After all, candlelight dinners are one of the most romantic ideas to express your love to the special someone in your life. The warm glow of candles make everything seem so mellow and hazy, and the soft lights will only make both of you look sexier and feel more in love! 

#3 Little gifts. Give your boyfriend or girlfriend a special gift every now and then. It doesn’t have to be expensive, nor does it have to hold a lot of personal meaning to it. Every little gift you give, be it a bar of chocolate, flowers or even a toy or a game will show your partner that they’re on your mind all the time.

#4 Massages. A foot massage or a backrub after a long day at work can go a long way in showing your appreciation for your lover. And if you have some time on your hands over a weekend, spare a few hours, run your hands all over them and give them a romantic, sensual massage.

#5 Love letters. Love letters are the kind of romantic ideas that can last a lifetime because they’re so special and meaningful. It doesn’t matter if you have no clue about how to write one. All you need to do is put pen on paper and just let your words flow. Before you know it, you would have expressed just how you feel about your partner and how happy you are to have them in your life.

#6 Surprises. Plan a surprise every now and then. You can go all out and plan a surprise birthday or an anniversary celebration. Or you can surprise your partner out of the blue by doing something for them, be it a chore or breakfast in bed one weekend morning.

#7 Text messages. Do you ever text your lover to say something nice? Texts may be a good way to stay connected, but you could also use it to express just how you feel. You can send a line about how eager you are to meet them in the evening, or you can even use it to say something naughty to make your sweetheart blush and go pink! 

#8 Create memories. Our lives are nothing but a collection of memories. So go on out there and create a lot more of them with your lover every now and then. Participate in an activity that both of you haven’t done yet, visit a place both of you have never been to, or even experiment with a new cuisine that you can’t imagine trying! Every new memory you create together will be another exciting leaf to add into your book of romance.

#9 Photobooks. If everything wonderful in your life is nothing but a collection of memories, what better way to keep the memories close to your heart than by gifting the special person in your life with a collection of photos of both of you together? Every time your sweetheart sees the book, they’d remember your sweet gesture and the effort you put into creating a collection of happy memories. 

#10 Cooking together. Cooking may be a chore, but cooking together always seems like a fun thing to do as a couple. Plan an exotic menu together and spend an evening or an afternoon cooking together at a leisurely pace.

#11 Bathtub. Bathrooms are sexy, but bathtubs, they’re just sensual and beautiful. Draw a bath for your husband or wife and slip in together. If you can have a few candles around, well, that just makes it a lot more romantic too. Both of you could just soak in the water, fool around for a while, or even make love. It’s all going to be just perfect.

#12 Rooftop dinner. Are you looking for a romantic idea that can be planned around the house? Well, nothing beats a romantic rooftop dinner with fairy lights. And if you can’t spare a roof, a backyard too could be just perfect for the occasion as long as you use candles or lights to make the night feel more romantic and unique.

#13 Secret desires. Is there something your partner really wants? Something they would love to have, but don’t really make the effort to pick it up? On a day when they least expect it, drop by at the store, get it gift wrapped and bring it home. Gifting something your lover’s always dreamed of having is thoughtful and romantic, all at once.

#14 A weekend getaway by a lake. If both of you can’t spare too much time to take off on vacations every now and then, take a trip down to a place closer home. Pack your bags and head to a lakeside resort or a mountain and spend the weekend together. It may not be a grand vacation, but it’ll definitely be just as exciting and memorable! 

#15 A trip to a vineyard. Wine has always been associated with romance, and a vineyard is no different here. Plan a short trip to a nearby vineyard with your lover, and spend a warm afternoon strolling down the rows of heaving grapes.

#16 Do something spontaneous. Planned romantic ideas are grand. But sometimes, a spontaneous burst of romance too can be just as fun. After all, romance too is just like sex. Passionate, long hours of sex is always sensual and fun. But at times, even a spontaneous quickie can feel just as awesome, don’t you think?
Decide on doing something together, and head out of your place. Drive around town for a while, and you’ll find something nice to do together in no time!

#17 Go to an amusement park. Amusement parks are great for two reasons. Firstly, they bring out the inner child within us, which can be a lot of fun. And more importantly, heart pumping rides always gives us an adrenalin rush. And a good dose of adrenalin always stimulates sexual arousal, which will make both of you get more attracted to each other. 

#18 The questions game. Spending an afternoon together and don’t know what to do? A perfect romantic idea that can build intimacy, bring both of you closer and improve communication is a good game of questions. They don’t have to be corny at all. As long as you ask the right questions, it’ll make both of you feel more romantic *perhaps, even horny!* in no time. 

#19 Take turns to plan dates. If both of you have been dating for a while, try something new from now on. If both of you go out once a week, take turns to plan the date. It creates a challenge and brings back the excitement of the infatuation period. Both of you would want to plan something elaborate to impress the other person. And in the end, both of you would end up having a lot of fun together.

#20 Shop for each other secretly. Shopping is something fun that all of us enjoy. Add a fun twist to shopping by spending an evening shopping for each other instead. Both of you could head to a mall together, and spend a couple of hours shopping for the other person. It’ll definitely leave both of you with a few laughs.

#21 The little things. Buy something special for your lover on your way back home now and then. You could pick up flowers, chocolates, or even a stuffed toy with a silly face! Sometimes, it’s the little unexpected things that can make your romance feel a lot more romantic than the grand gestures. 

#22 Make a home video with a personal message. If your partner’s away for a few days, or if you’re missing them when they aren’t around, record a video for them with a personal message. 

#23 Have tantric sex. Sexual intimacy is just as important as emotional intimacy for all couples. And no sexual act beats the intimacy tantric sex can bring to your relationship. If both of you can spare a few hours of undisturbed time, lock yourselves in the bedroom and prepare your minds for a sexual high that could leave both of you in ecstatic tears! 

#24 Dance. Looking for a romantic idea that involves a bit of music and fun? Head to a club together, or stay back at home and play something romantic in the background. It may seem corny or awkward at first, but a few minutes into the dance, and it’ll just feel perfectly romantic! 

#25 Watch a romantic movie. If both of you don’t feel like taking the effort to dress up and head out somewhere, just bring the romance into your living room. Pick a romantic movie that both of you haven’t watched yet, snuggle up, order in and spend a lazy afternoon in each other’s arms.


Sometimes, the best romantic ideas are also the easiest and the simple ones. As long as you look for ways to show your affection to your lover every now and then, you’ll find that there will always be new and exciting romantic ideas in your lives, all the time!
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Sunday, August 12, 2018

10 Steps to Reignite the Lost Spark in a Relationship

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 Are you losing the spark in your relationship? Use these 10 steps to bring the romantic spark back into love with a flirty, naughty and sexy bang!

When you lose the spark in a relationship, it’s not always because both of you don’t have time for each other.
Almost always, it’s because both of you just aren’t having enough fun together!
All relationships start with a bang.
And all lovers know just what it takes to please their lover and keep love alive.
But somewhere along the way, most lovers overlook the little things that brought them together.
And they end up in relationships where two people exist together only because they were once passionately in love with each other.
It’s a memory of blissful romance that binds them together.
And if you take that memory away from them, there would be no reason to even talk to each other.


Why do couples lose the spark in love?
The easiest *and yet the harshest* way to reason this loss of spark in your romance is because both of you have started taking each other for granted, and given up on trying to impress each other.
One partner may have stopped pleasing the other. And the other partner too may have eventually followed suit. And life just goes on normally because both partners now don’t need to try and impress each other anymore *because the other partner isn’t doing it!*
A few months or years may pass by, and one fine day, both of you realize that there’s still love and togetherness in the relationship. But it’s just not fun anymore!
The relationship’s boring, both of you just live together and yet share nothing exciting with each other. And both of you convince yourselves that a romantic relationship exists only for togetherness, and only the first few stages of romance feels like fun. 

But that’s just wrong, because a relationship’s meant to be fun, no matter which stage of love you’re in. Both of you need to start feeling like little frisky, horny kids again. And most importantly, both of you need to stop giving up on each other and make the effort to bring the wild passion and excitement back into the relationship! 

10 steps to bring the spark into love
The spark in your love life may be missing, but it’s definitely not gone for good. All of us have a choice, and we can bring that magical spark back into love if we choose to. But you need to remember that something that’s been missing for a while would take a considerable amount to time to come back again.
Bringing the spark back into the relationship can be a lot of fun, and it can make both of you feel like little kids again, but it does take some time and patience. But I can assure you, with every step along the way, you’ll feel closer and more alive than ever before!
Follow these 10 steps, one step at a time, starting from the first all the way to the tenth. And by the time you get to the last step, you won’t just rekindle the spark in your romance, both of you would feel completely infatuated by each other, all over again! 

#1 Make time for each other. Every big change starts in small ways, and this is one such start. The first thing you need to do is learn to make time for each other. It’s not about living together or sleeping together, but about bonding together or sharing something that’s fun. Schedule a few hours every week, maybe a Sunday evening, to do something that both of you enjoy, like watching a movie or working on a pet project together.

#2 Communicate. Don’t give up on each other. It’s the biggest mistake you can make. Making time for each other is a start, but communication is what brings both of you closer together. Talk to each other frankly *sugarcoating the truth won’t hurt though!* and if there are a few things you don’t like about your partner, talk about it with them.
And likewise, listen to your partner’s opinions and take them into consideration too. Try to change for each other and learn from each other.
The second step is the hardest step, because it may annoy and frustrate both of you. But remember, this is an important part in the healing process and it will fix you! 

#3 Pillow talk. Don’t bring your worries into bed. Don’t bring your gadgets or reading material into bed. This is the biggest mistake lovers do. When you enter step three, make a habit of getting into bed with no distractions and just lie down together, even if it seems awkward or boring in bed because there are tons of things you could rather do.
You may not have too many things to talk about initially, but as a few nights pass, both of you may start talking to each other and communicating in a much better way. 

#4 Get fit. Well, yes, this sucks, but you need to do this. Most couples let go after getting married or when they get into a long term relationship. They pile up several pounds, they stop dressing up and they just don’t care anymore. If you’re that partner, change yourself.
How would you care for your appearance if you were single, and if you had to go on a first date with someone you like, just how much of an effort would you put into dressing up for them?
Do you make the same effort for your partner who loves you and cares for you? Most probably, you don’t. And why is that? Do you think your partner deserves less of you than a stranger on a first date? You may not want to admit it, but the fact is, you’re taking your lover for granted and just don’t care about their opinions. And it’s time you stop that.
Try to impress your lover and win their appreciation. Look good, dress well, use perfume, flirt and attract their attention! 

#5 Surprise each other. The romantic gestures may have been forgotten, but it has to be brought back into your relationship. And if you care enough to bring the spark back into your relationship, you need to start somewhere. Do you remember how often you used to do nice things for each other at the start of the relationship? Why stop now? Is it because it’s easier to just laze on the couch instead of walking down a street and buying flowers or a little sweet treat for your lover?
Make the effort to woo each other and surprise each other, at least in little ways. You can start small, and your partner will start reciprocating your effort too. 

#6 Go clubbing. Remember, the loss of spark in love isn’t because of too much distance in love, it’s because both of you have forgotten to have fun together. So do just that! Go out, paint the town red and have fun together.
Get drunk, party hard, dance and grind against each other, kiss on the dance floor and laugh out loud. Even if you feel too old to dance all night long, try to make the effort to go out to places where you and your partner can have a wild and fun time. 

#7 Go on a vacation or a short getaway. The first few steps would bring both of you closer together and bond better. And now, it’s time to make a bigger change. Take off on a vacation or a weekend getaway.
But don’t plan something romantic just yet. Remember, there’s always the awkward feeling at the back of your mind because you’re doing all this not because you feel like it, but because you want to reignite the romance. So don’t put too much pressure on trying to focus on romance.
Plan a fun vacation to a beach where the two of you can party all night long, meet new and exciting people together and have a fun time. When you have fun together, romance will find a way back into your lives, so stop worrying about romance just yet! 

#8 Get intimate. Asking each other fun questions is a great way to open new conversations and get to know each other better. On a lazy weekend together, lie down in bed or on the couch, and ask each other a series of intimate and yet revealing questions. 

Using these questions will help both of you feel a lot closer, and most importantly, it’ll rekindle the sexual excitement in the relationship!

#9 Get naughty. A happy romantic relationship needs a good dose of love and sex. So try to bring the sizzle back in your bedroom. Experiment in bed, and try a few naughty things in bed that both of you haven’t tried before. 
But if both of you don’t feel very horny in each other’s company just yet, don’t force sex into the relationship. It never works. It may just lead to painful sex or a limp member.
Instead, create scenarios where you can turn your lover on instead, or talk about naughty things that turn your partner on. Sex will happen naturally! 

#10 Bring romance back into your lives. Now that you’ve followed the first nine steps, both of you would already feel a lot more passionate and happy in your love life. And now that happy love and passionate sex have found their way back into your love life, you need to learn to keep it that way.
Don’t take your partner for granted again. Woo them, serenade them, plan romantic ideas every now and then, and impress and awe them all the time. Each time you feel lazy or too bored to bring the magic back into love, just ask yourself sincerely if you’re taking your lover for granted. And ask yourself if you’re truly trying your best to make your lover smile. 
The best part about a happy relationship is that the effort you take always pays you back a hundred fold. So stop worrying about what you’re going to get back in return, and just open your heart out to your lover. And you won’t just bring the passion back into your relationship, you’ll bring happiness back into your life too!


It may seem like a bit of an effort, but just try these 10 steps to reignite the lost spark in your relationship. It’ll surely change your life for the better, and bring both of you closer in no time.
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