Monday, October 24, 2016

4 Reasons Why Debt Affects a Relationship Negatively

4 Reasons Why Debt Affects a Relationship Negatively board writings black and whote erase words

Sometimes we may take loans from our close ones in uninvited situations and they willingly help us because they care for us. But there are times when we are late or fail to return or pay back the debts; this makes the situation very awkward for both and it negatively affects a relationship. No matter which relationship we are in, money matters have the power to demolish the purest of relations. In fact, it is advisable that when it comes to financial crisis, debts and situations one must not remain indebted to someone for a long time. Here are 4 main reasons why debt affects a relationship negatively.

1. Makes things awkward
When we are unable to pay back a debt taken from people who are close to us like friends, relatives or a boyfriend, we start feeling uncomfortable and find it difficult to face that person. Every time we look at that person it reminds us of the debt and we become conscious about it. It affects the relationship because we cannot think of anything else and makes interactions awkward.

2. Makes the other person act differently
Living with a debt can affect the relationship with the person you have taken it from because the person may be hoping and waiting for you to pay it back. When you are unable to do so, chances are their behavior towards you might change and they may act indifferently.

3. You become very conscious
When you are unable to repay a debt to someone close to you, you become conscious because you are unable to forget about it. You may have a feeling that the person will judge you and have a negative image about you. This might make you shy away from them or make you unable to look them in the eye.

4. Hinders social activities
When the person suggests the two of you go out for coffee or to grab a bite, you refuse thinking that you may have to foot the entire bill. Aware that you still owe them money, you cancel plans and make excuses leaving the other person feeling like you don’t value their company.
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6 Ways to Deal With an Insecure Girlfriend

6 Ways to Deal With an Insecure Girlfriend,sad lonely confused thinking woman

Is your girlfriend being a pain in the neck by being extremely insecure about you? Is she constantly attempting to follow you or track your moves? Here are a few ways you can deal with an insecure girlfriend and put an end to your miseries.

1. Don’t pay too much attention to her insecurities
Your mind may be distracted by your girlfriend’s worries and insecure nature but don’t let that pull you down. You can talk to your girlfriend and assure her that she has nothing to worry about, but don’t pamper your girlfriend otherwise she may get used to it. Also, the minute she starts sensing that you don’t care much about her insecurities or possessive nature, she may automatically calm down.

2. Talk to her in a soothing voice
Losing your temper and getting agitated because of your girlfriend’s insecurities can be possible. Instead of getting annoyed, calm yourself down and talk to her soothingly as often as you can. Share an intimate moment with her to assure her that there is no reason she should be insecure about anything in life. A short temper will only make things worse.

3. Introduce her to all your friends and colleagues
Is your girlfriend feeling insecure and jealous because you spend a lot of time at work or school with other people? If this is something that you can’t avoid, introduce your girlfriend to your mates. Let her gel with them and feel safe about the fact that you aren’t flirting with any other women. If you are close to your friends and colleagues, you can also ask them to help you put your girlfriend’s insecurities to rest.

4. Allow her to scan through your online accounts and phone freely
One of the easiest ways to deal with an insecure girlfriend is to not be secretive about anything, whether it is taking a call or checking your Facebook in front of her. Keep your life like an open book to help her realize that her insecurities are baseless. If she looks through your call log or texts, allow her to do so instead of getting irritated at her naive behavior.

5. Keep informing her about your whereabouts from time to time
Insecure women are known to unnecessarily fret by imagining their boyfriends are involved in something goofy while they are away. Keep your girlfriend informed about your whereabouts from time to time so that she doesn’t feel like she is kept in the dark. Don’t let her paint an imaginary picture of you partying around town without her knowledge.

6. Seek the help of a counselor or a relationship expert
If your girlfriend is going to arduous heights by spying over you or following you because of her insecurity, it may be time for you to visit a relationship counselor. This sort of behavior may get out of hand if not controlled at the right stage. Taking the advice and help of a counselor may help your girlfriend to get rid of some of her insecurities.
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7 Signs You are a Relationship Hopper

7 Signs You are a Relationship Hopper,man woman harpor dock sea travel ship deck love couple

Commitment and stability are two important factors of a love relationship. Many women do not like the idea of being in a single relationship. If you are scared of commitment, then you are a relationship hopper. Listed below are some signs, so continue reading.

1. There is a need
If you constantly feel the need for having someone in your life, then think again. If you had a breakup and want to get in a new relationship immediately, then you might be a relationship hopper. There is no particular reason for this need. It’s just that you have an urge of being with someone.

2. Commitment phobia
Changing partners and relationships suggest that you are a commitment phobic. You like being with someone when in a relationship, but you do not truly love him. If he proposes you for marriage and you back off, then evaluate the situation.

3. Rush into things
You have just met him and you ask him out, think about it. If you rush to get into a relationship, then you are not being true to yourself. You just want to get into it for no reason. Chances are that you are a hopper, who wants to be with every second guy. It is important to get out of this mess and think ahead.

4. Being single
Relationship hoppers like to enjoy their freedom. Most women dump men within a month of dating. If you like being single, then there is no point getting into a relationship at first place. And, if you change lovers after every six months, then it is time to stop.

5. Confused state of mind
If you cannot stick to one relationship, then maybe you have a confused state of mind. You are not sure of what you want in life. If you are not sure of your feelings, you cannot really commit to any relationship. It is important to evaluate your feelings first.

6. Cannot adjust or change
If your partner wants you to change or adjust then that is out of love. If you give a dam to his feelings, then maybe you are not interested in the relationship. In this case, you do not want to sort things out. If you immediately end the relationship, then you are a relationship hopper.

7. Image of being flirt
Unless you want to be known as a flirt, there is no reason why you keep changing partners. Well, there are many women who like to be called as flirt. They do not really get tied in one particular relationship; they hop from one partner to another.
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Sunday, October 23, 2016

8 Tips on Dating a Capricorn Woman

8 Tips on Dating a Capricorn Woman sheep animal wool

A Capricorn woman can be the perfect date if you know what it takes to win her over. So here are some dating tips that will make her go gaga over you and make you the man of her dreams.

1. Learn to be responsible
Being associated with the planet Saturn, people who are born under Capricorn are extremely disciplined and responsible. So if you are going out with a Capricorn woman, show her that you too are capable of taking on responsibilities.

2. Don’t be shaky
Be relaxed when you are on a date with a Capricorn woman. Don’t worry much as she won’t judge the book by its cover. If you are genuine, you can easily win her over.

3. Chat her up
A Capricorn woman can come across as too reserved in the beginning but can be a riot once she decides to open up. So don’t be disheartened if seems too cold at first and take some time to break the ice.

4. Show her how good you look together
Capricorns are known to be pessimists and she may require some prodding from your side before she commits to you. So go ahead and show her what a great couple you make and she will certainly realize the same.

5. Work with her
If the going gets tough, work with her to keep the relationship going. Few can match a Capricorn in perseverance and she will definitely try her best to make things work.

6. Show that you trust her
Don’t question her integrity as a Capricorn woman is known to be trustworthy to the core. If they commit to someone once, they don’t look back again.

7. Be flexible
A Capricorn woman can be very rigid at times and hence an understanding and supportive boyfriend is what she needs. Try to be flexible and accommodating and you will be fine.

8. Cope with her whims and fancies
Capricorns can be extremely stubborn and it will require a lot of effort on your part to satisfy her demands. Make an effort to deal with her whims and fancies and show her that her wants are important to you.
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