Wednesday, June 20, 2018

13 Signs You’re Starting to Fall in Love !!

13 Signs You’re Starting to Fall in Love,man woman holding each other hands romance sitting on the stairs

 How do you know when you are falling in love? Sometimes it’s easy to know, sometimes it’s not. Here are 13 signs that love is in the air!

Starting a new relationship can be so great. You go on lots of exciting dates, you have first kisses, first sleepovers, you get wined and dined, and meet their friends. It’s all nerves, tension, flirting, and fun.
But when do you move from just dating someone to something more serious? When do you know that this person is actually more meaningful to you? When do you know that you are falling for them and that love is in the air?
Love is different for everyone, and there is no set of exact feelings that you will have that definitely mean you are in love. Only you know how you feel. However, with that said, people often do get very similar feelings when they start to fall for someone.

13 signs that love is in the air
If you are wondering whether you are actually in love with someone, or just want to tell the difference between true love and a crush or infatuation, then these 13 signs that love is in the air could help you figure it out!
So, are you in love? Let’s take a look! 

#1 You wake up and think of them. If, as soon as you wake up in the morning, you think of your new love interest *in a good way, of course*, then it is a solid indication that you might be falling in love. This is particularly true if you think of them last thing at night too. Someone being always on your mind is a sign that love is in the air.

#2 You daydream about them. If you find your mind wandering off, and you make up little scenarios about the two of you together, it shows that you are thinking about them all the time. It could be fantasizing about the future, or just the hot sex you are going to have later, but having daydreams shows just how strong your feelings are. 

#3 The thought of losing them is terrible. Do you well up at the idea of losing them, even though it is unlikely to happen? If you think about breaking up and it’s devastating *or even imaging losing them when the two of you are old and grey*, this shows how deeply you care for them.
You now can’t imagine ever being without them, and know that they’ll always be by your side – this is truly a sign that love is in the air! 

#4 When you look at them, you get a rush of that “warm, fuzzy feeling.” The feeling you get when you are in love with someone is a kind of surge of positive emotion.
It makes you feel like you could burst with happiness, but at the same time, aware of how vulnerable you are. It’s kind of like having butterflies, but more complex and intense than this – if you feel it, you’ll know!

#5 You feel like you “get” each other. Being in love is about truly knowing the other person, and letting them know you too. If you have let each other in, feel as though you could tell one another anything, and understand each other completely, then it shows what a deep and special connection the two of you have. 

#6 You would do anything to make them happy. Being in love with someone makes you feel very selfless. If you feel as though you would do anything to make the other person happy, then it probably means you are in love with them.
What’s more is that you also know just what it is that will bring a smile to their face, and so do your best to make that happen as often as possible!

#7 You know their hopes and dreams. When you love someone, you want to know everything about them. You know what their aspirations are, from practical career ones, to their wildest fantasies.
You are their biggest supporter and believe in them completely. You push each other on and try to help one another achieve as many of your dreams and goals as possible. 

#8 You get excited about seeing them. So, you only saw each other that morning and then both went to work, but the thought of seeing them again at the end of the day is so exciting. The rush you feel when you walk through the door and there they are is totally unlike anything else. You can’t explain it, but you just feel so happy to be together, even if you are doing nothing at all.

#9 You feel more emotional than usual. As we said before, being in love can make you feel vulnerable and can make you look at the world in a different way. In order to truly fall in love, you have to give yourself to that other person completely, and doing so can be quite scary.
Because of this, you are way more sensitive to your own feelings and theirs as well. They can make you cry with joy, but also with sadness much more easily than anyone else would be able to. 

#10 You have little secrets. Love is all about sharing things with one another, and letting that person see sides of you that no one else does. Inevitably, you end up having little secrets that only the two of you share.
It doesn’t necessarily have to be big, “take this to the grave” type of secrets, but just little things such as the weird bedtime routine you have, or that you secretly find your boss really annoying. There are just some things that you keep just for the two of you, that no one else is privy to, and that’s what makes your relationship so special.

#11 You completely trust one another. You can’t really be in love without truly trusting that other person. While it might be nerve racking to do so, love means you are able to put all your faith in that other person.
You know that when times get tough, they will be there for you. You know if you have a big fight, it doesn’t mean you don’t care for one another or that you are going to break up. You feel safe and solid, even when you aren’t getting along as well as you should! 

#12 You accept each other’s flaws. Being in love is about totally understanding and knowing the other person. Often when we first start out in a relationship, we only let that person see the good sides of us, and we keep the bad part of us hidden from view.
You can only truly love someone, and be loved, when you have shown one another all of your sides. Once you have accepted each other for who you truly are, then you can call it love.

#13 They are your best friend as well as your lover. Being in love isn’t just about the physical side and the flirting. There is a great friendship underneath it all as well. Good friends depend on one another and support each other, but they also give each other space to grow and freedom to be an individual too.

So, do any of these sound familiar to you? If so, it might just be that love is in the air and you are really falling for your partner – what a wonderful feeling that must be!
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What is Real Love? 15 Special Ways True Love Sets Itself Apart

What is Real Love? 15 Special Ways True Love Sets Itself Apart,man woman sunset

 There are all types of love out there. However, the one people are most fascinated by, is real love. So then, what is real love? Here are the answers.

Love is such a tricky thing to pin down. You have so many different types, and they all mean very different things to a person. So, what is real love? How do we differentiate real love from all the other types of love out there?
By now I’m sure you know I’m talking about being in love with someone. Because sure, you can definitely love the person you’re with and care about their well-being, but does that mean it’s real love? Where does that line separate the two, and how are you supposed to know?

Love comes in all different forms
It’s hard to look at someone and tell them you love them only to later realize that it wasn’t the type of love you thought. You can love someone like family, like a friend, and even just love them enough to worry about them… but not enough to need them around all the time.
With all these different types of love out there, it can be confusing to know which one you feel for someone. Of course, your biggest concern is whether or not it’s real love, and if it’s worth putting in all the effort you are. 

So… what is real love?
That leaves us with this question. Yes, that one… what is real love and how in the hell can you tell the difference? I, for one, have learned the hard way how to tell the difference. It’s definitely something that takes time and experience to pinpoint, but you can learn which type of love is real and what isn’t.
If you’re just as curious about what real love is as I once was, you’ll definitely benefit from these different ways you can tell what real love is. Be prepared, though, because these are the answers you may not have expected.

#1 You care more about their happiness than your own. This may seem cliché, but it’s true. If you’re truly in love with someone and it’s real love, you care more about them being happy than you do yourself.
Therefore, you put them above you in your life and recognize that sometimes real love means sacrificing your happiness because you need someone else to be happy. 

#2 You actively WANT to support them in their dreams. This is something a lot of people don’t realize because, yes, you should always support those you care deeply about. However, there’s a difference in doing so because you HAVE to and doing so because you WANT to. If it’s real love, you’ll want to support them because you want to see them happy.

#3 You do things to make them happy – despite how you feel about it. This doesn’t mean doing things that go against your morals or anything serious like that. I’m talking about waking up with them at 5 a.m. to make them breakfast even if you don’t have to be up until at least 7.

#4 They’re the first person you want to tell about the events in your life. This is an often overlooked characteristic of real love.
If you immediately think about someone whenever something significant happens to you, and all you want to do is run and tell them, it’s real love. Wanting someone to be included in every aspect of your life is what real love is about.

#5 They feel like home. If you’re unfamiliar with how this feels, then you don’t know what real love is like just yet. Real love feels like home. It feels like no matter what, going back to that person feels like you’re at home – no matter where you actually are.

#6 They’re your family. Family doesn’t always mean someone you’re married to or blood related to. You can make your own family with those around you who you really love. If it’s real love, you’ll feel as though that person is a part of your life like they’re family.

#7 It’s a slow-burning feeling. Maybe people confuse passion with love. The two are not interchangeable. Sure, you can have passion in real love, but passion is also something that is often there in the beginning of new relationships no matter if real love is or not.
Real love is more of a slow-burning feeling. It feels warm and it’s always there, and sometimes it’ll heat up hotter than usual, and sometimes it’ll simmer down. But no matter what, the fire keeps burning. 

#8 It’s unconditional. Real love has no boundaries when it comes to loving someone. If you’re truly in love with them, you love them under any circumstances. Your love for them has no conditions. No matter what happens to them or with them, you’re still in love.

#9 Jealousy is nearly non-existent. Real love has no room for jealousy. Sure, you’ll have the occasional bout of jealousy in certain situations, and that’s normal. But there is no consistent feeling of being jealous of someone else. Why? Because if it’s real love, you feel secure in that relationship with that person. 

#10 You don’t ever feel judged – no matter what. This is the biggest thing that makes love real. If you can go to your partner with anything and have no fear about being judged or how they feel about you, it’s real love. True and real love means not judging your significant other, and not feeling judged by them.

#11 Your life feels better with them in it, but you don’t NEED them. A lot of people mistake needing someone in their life with being real love. The truth is, it’s not healthy or natural to NEED someone in your life. If it’s real love, you WANT them in your life because they make it better. 

#12 Real love is an action. What is real love? Well, real love isn’t just a feeling, but an action. It’s actively being in their life, and showing that you love and care about them every single day. If you just feel love for them but don’t do anything to actively show them this because you don’t have a desire to, it’s not real love.

#13 It’s acceptance. Accepting of your love and who you are together is what real love is. It’s knowing all of your faults together and still wanting to be with that person despite the hardships. 

#14 It’s comfortable. Real love is one of the most comfortable feelings there is. You just feel content in life and comfortable with where you are – even if you have difficulties going on. It’s the feeling of just being who you are and living your life the way you want with someone who feels the same.

#15 It’s feeling happy despite the hardships in your life. No matter what’s going on in your life, if you have real love, you have happiness there. Even if you’re going through a really hard time and you’re miserable, there is still an underlying happiness that lingers there.

When it comes to the answer to the question, what is real love, you may have difficulty knowing when you feel it. But these characteristics of real love can help you determine just how you feel about someone.
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When it’s True Love: 18 Ways to Split Casual Dates from Real Love

True Love, Ways to Split Casual Dates from Real Love,man woman covered with blanket

How do you know the difference between true love and lust? Yeah, I know. Got you thinking, right? Here’s how to know when it’s true love.

There’s always that moment you have with someone when you’re staring into their eyes and thinking to yourself, “Do I love this person? Could I love this person?”  We’ve all been there. It happens whenever you get yourself in a relationship. But how you do know when it’s true love?
I wish it could be as simple as receiving a text from Afrodite saying, “You know that girl/guy you went to the movies with last Friday? You’re going to love them.” Thanks, Afrodite, you really cleared that up.

18 ways to know when it’s true love
Of course, love is completely the opposite, although it’s basically a bunch of hormones being released. And it’s confusing, your head hurts, you’re scared… I get it. You know, though, it doesn’t have to be this hard. You just need to be aware of the signs.
To know when it’s true love, you must look within… queue in mystical music and the smoke machine. Here are 18 ways to know when it’s true love.

#1 You hide nothing. You’re not quickly hiding your Tinder app on your phone or dodging your Friday night date because you met someone the other night. Why would you?
You’re in love, baby! You have nothing to hide, nor do you want to hide anything from them. Didn’t the Spice Girls sing about this? When two become one. 

#2 You’re done with the games. You don’t need to wait three hours to text them back. In fact, you text them all the damn time and probably send them toilet or double chin selfies. You hold nothing back because love isn’t about games. That’s what dating is for. Dating is games. Love is about finding your soulmate.

#3 You compromise. When you’re single, compromising is the worst. You wanna do what you wanna do and if they don’t wanna do it, you’ll find someone else.
But now, it’s all about compromising and you’re okay with it. You’re just happy to hang out with your partner, whether you like playing laser tag or not. And that’s when it’s true love.

#4 You respect each other. This may be shocking for some, but love is based on respect. If you don’t respect your partner, then how do you expect to be with them? People who respect each other stay together. That’s not a saying… I just made it up. But it’s true.

#5 You accept their flaws. You hate that they snort when they laugh or slurp while eating soup, but you know, that’s them. They’re flawed, you’re flawed, we’re all flawed. Basically, being in love is about finding someone whose flaws you can tolerate. 

#6 That being said, you don’t focus on them. If you’re focusing on their flaws every day, then this person is not for you. You know about their flaws, but love is about acknowledging them and moving forward. If their flaws bother you so much, then you probably don’t love them as much as you think you do.

#7 When they’re happy, you’re happy. Yes, that’s a huge part of when it’s true love. I know, it sounds mushy, but it’s true. When you’re in love, you’ll agree with this. Your happiness is found when your partner is happy. That being said, when they’re sad, you’re also sad. So, basically, you feel everything they feel.

#8 You’re there during the rough times. This is crucial. When I liked a guy, I used to think to myself, “Would I wipe their butt if they couldn’t?” and if I couldn’t, then it wasn’t love. If it’s love, you’ll be there through every rough patch imaginable. 

#9 You feel it. Don’t doubt your gut instinct. You know when you’re in love. You feel it in your bones. Now, you also know when they love or don’t love you as well. Just listen to the gut! Feeling it is when you know it’s true love.

#10 You’re thinking about the future. You’re thinking about how your kids will look or if they’d make a good parent. It’s a scary moment, but when you’re thinking about it, you know you’re falling deep into the love hole. Embrace it.

#12 You’ve stopped looking for better. When you’re dating, you’re always comparing people – who’s better looking, who’s smarter, blah blah blah. But when you’re in love, you couldn’t less about anyone else. I mean, you don’t lose your ability to see another good-looking person, but you’re not going crazy wishing you could be with them. 

#13 You’re a better person. You find yourself being a better person in general. You notice yourself doing an act of kindness and sharing your positive energy with others. If someone is making you a better person, well, then you’ve been struck by the love bug.

#14 Real love doesn’t hurt. Unless you stub your toe, there should be no tears when you’re in love. Real love isn’t supposed to be filled with pain and torture. That would indicate you’re dating a psychopath, so I recommend letting them go slowly. Remember, real love means no tears.

#15 You’ve passed the honeymoon phase. If you’re way past the honeymoon phase, and you’re still going strong together. So that means you two have it down. After the honeymoon phase, most couples dissolve. However, true love continues on. 

#16 You’re kind. When you’re passing a store and see something in the window that reminds you of your partner, you buy for them as a surprise. Or, you make them breakfast in bed. These are all acts of kindness that show your appreciation towards that person.

#17 It’s not all about you. It’s not all about you, and you know what, you don’t mind it. You know you’re in love when you start using “we” instead of “I.” Although it’s a small change in a sentence, it really shows a lot about what you think of your relationship. 

#18 You laugh. Love is all about positivity. If you’re always laughing with your partner, and I mean a genuine laugh, that shows your attraction to them on a deeper level. Couples that laugh together, stay together.

While looking at these tips, think about your relationship. Are these signs present in your relationship? If so, well, I think you caught the love bug… and that’s when it’s true love.
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Tuesday, June 19, 2018

Signs You've Found Your Soulmate !!

Signs You've Found Your Soulmate,MAN HUG WOMAN LOVE KISS IN THE STREET

 We’ve all heard of soul mates, but do you know what twin souls are? Not many of us do. Here are the signs so you can know if you’ve found yours.

From Disney movies to chick flicks, we have all been immersed in romantic stories for most of our lives. We all want to find “The One” and live happily ever after. But how do we know if we’ve found that special someone… our soul mate?
The term soul mate gets thrown around a lot these days. Most people use it to describe the person they spend the rest of their lives with. But is it just a human thing, or could it perhaps be more spiritual? Let’s take a look.

Signs of twin souls
The term twin souls is found a lot more in New Age and metaphysical spiritual teachings than in other religions. While a soul mate is more of a “soul friend,” twin souls are literally like the other half of your soul.
Some people believe that our soul was split in half, and so we’re always trying to find the person who has the other part of our soul. Whether you believe that or not is up to you, but here are some signs of twin souls. So, take a look at these signs to see if maybe you’ve found yours.

#1 You meeting might have been totally unplanned or unexpected. You could be happily single. Or even happily taken *or even married*. And you weren’t looking for your twin soul. But suddenly and unexpectedly, you might meet someone, and they turn your world upside down. And you can’t think of anyone else. 

#2 You have an immediate feeling like you already know each other. Usually when we meet someone new, it feels like they’re new. It feels like we need to get to know them.
But when twin souls meet, it’s like they have known each other forever. It’s just like catching up with an old friend that you haven’t seen in forever. It’s such a feeling of familiarity. They feel like home to you.

#3 The feeling between you two can be electrifying. If twin souls are romantically attracted to one another, then the energy between them can be electrifying and overwhelming. The power of attraction between the two of them is just unlike anything they have ever known before with anyone else.

#4 You immediately form a meaningful relationship. Because you immediately feel like you’ve known them for eternity, how can you possibly not have a deep, meaningful relationship with them? You will both have the desire to have a long-lasting, solid relationship for the rest of your lives. 

#5 You feel a sense of unity with the person. With most people, the personality differences we feel can annoy us. It can be a struggle to get along. But with twin souls, they feel as if they are one. While they are not identical or clones of each other from a human perspective, they just feel as if they are in such synchronicity that they feel like they are one.

#6 You have feelings deeper than you’ve ever had before. We’ve all loved people before. Most of us have also been in love. But when twin souls come together, they are blindsided by the depth of their feelings for one another.
The feelings are almost immediate, which confuses them because most of us believe that love at first sight is impossible. But it’s not impossible for twin souls.

#7 You may become inseparable. If both parts of the twin souls are able to, they will want to spend every waking minute with each other. Their draw to each other, and the power that attracts them, is like a magnet. They have an overwhelming desire to be with their beloved as much as possible. 

#8 The relationship is totally open and honest. With twin souls, because they feel so connected and intimate with one another, trust is just easy and immediate. They don’t have a problem sharing their feelings with each other, and they don’t keep anything from the other one.

#9 You could talk to them forever… about anything. As you know, we get along better with some people than others. Sometimes it’s like pulling teeth talking to someone, but with twin souls, they could talk for eternity. And there is no topic that is taboo or off-limits.

#10 You may feel like you share a life purpose. People who believe in twin souls think that they have incarnated into the physical plane to accomplish some sort of life purpose together. Whether it’s getting married and having children or starting a business that will change the world, they have come together into this life to spiritually accomplish something.

#11 Your relationship feels special – almost to the point of being sacred. Sometimes with twin souls, the attraction is so powerful that it’s scary. There is even a common Runner-Chaser scenario that can happen. One person gets scared and runs. And the other person chases them. This happens because of the overwhelming feelings they have for one another.

#12 Your feelings for each other seems very spiritual. When twin souls are together, they feel like it’s not just a human connection. They literally feel like each other’s spiritual “other half,” so their relationship transcends normal human bonds. They both feel it, and they both know it.

#13 It feels like it was “meant to be.” The relationship between twin souls feels like it has been destined to happen. It feels like they planned their human meeting long before they ever even incarnated here as human beings.
It’s something that was written in the stars. And it feels like you were brought together for a reason. 

#14 Accepting each other’s weaknesses happens automatically. Everyone has their weaknesses or quirks. In normal romantic relationships, these usually get on our nerves and we fight about it. But for twin souls, they don’t care. They embrace their differences and automatically accept each other as they are. It’s true unconditional love.

#15 The sexual component of the relationship feels spiritual. This is huge bonus for twin souls. If they are in a romantic relationship, the sexuality they experience with one another is on a whole different level. It transcends the physical, and it is much, much more spiritual-feeling than any other sexual encounters they’ve had before.

#16 You have a sense of complete inner peace. We are all looking for that feeling of peace. You know, where everything feels right in the world, and nothing is wrong. Well, for twin souls, they feel that when they are with each other. They truly do feel like home to one another, which give a total sense of bliss and peace.

I know after reading the signs of twin souls you’re thinking, “Where can I find mine?” Well, I wish I had the answer for you. If I did, I’d be a very rich woman. But until you find the other half of your soul, make sure you enjoy the journey along the way with whoever is lucky enough to come into your life.
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