Asking a girl out for a date does not require any heroism. All you need to do is shrug off the uneasiness and just ask her. The worst that could happen is that she would say ‘no’. But just because you fear being rejected, would you not even try? If you think that the only known ways to ask a girl out are too clichéd and boring and could only come across as cheesy, then think of something new! You can go all creative with various ideas when you want to ask a girl out. Girls love innovative and quirky ways in which guys may ask them out. Also, make it a bit less obvious and sort of a surprise for her. If you catch her off guard, mostly she say ‘yes’ as she will be too amused and not have time to consider declining. Listed below are 5 creative ways to ask a girl out for a date.
1. Ask for her number
Just go ahead and ask for her number. You do not have to be talking to her already or knowing her well already to be able to ask for her number. Just go and tell her that you would like to meet up later on and ask for her number. This would work because she really does not have any reason not to give you her number, unless you have been an absolute pest. Once you have her number, you can always make an excuse to ask her out.
2. Give her customized cupcakes
You can easily get this done at any local bakery. Get some customized cupcakes which would have your message written on it with icing or any topping. You can then make those cupcakes appear before her or send those to her anonymously and wait for her reply. If you manage to get her favorite flavor, she will find this really cute and would most probably say ‘yes’.
3. Ask like a quiz question with options
Pretend you are asking something very serious. Go up to her and ask her whether she would like to go out on a date with you or not. Also give her options like ‘yes’, ‘no’, ‘maybe’ and so on. Say all of these very seriously and let her react. She willask be taken aback and will surely beak out in a giggle. And if you can make her laugh, you have already made it!
4. Use post-its/notes
Another creative idea to ask her out is to use post-its or ordinary written notes which you can put at her work space or desk or whatever of hers you have access to. These notes will give her a cue that you are interested in going out with her. Make sure you tell her a way to reply and not leave it open ended and both end up confused.
5. Leave signs on her path
You could also use signs and symbols and tell her that you would like her to go out on a date with you. Use balloons, placards, funny signs and any other symbols you think will amuse her, and ask her out in the form of a simple message. She will find this really amusing and might just say ‘yes’.