Susan, my friend, spends one hour at night on the terrace. Walking
down the terrace she remembers this was exactly the place where her best friend
had proposed her. It was 15th of December, very cold and she was there sitting
on the railing talking to him, when he suddenly proposed. She was not expecting
this to happen but something in her was very happy and exactly after three days
she said yes to him and now after two years of relationship, the excitement is
over and they barely find topic to talk. Love still prevails but something has
disturbed the behaviour.
This story apart from her is true for many others and the only
solution to distance in a relationship is to understand the reason. The reason
usually is some unnoticed mistakes which one make in the relationship.
Some mistakes which causes distance in
relationship-
1.Workaholic
One of the basic mistakes which brings
distance in relationship is work. Career is important but in the race to
achieve the career aim, sometimes we forget the person whom we love. 24X7 jobs
are growing up to become the major reason for relationship problems. Thus, the
step to happy relationship is a perfect balance. You can be workaholic in
office but at home you have to play the role of a family person.
2.Long Distance
Distance causes distance in relationship.
Less time of communication, lack of meetings and time gap of the day, creates
distance and thus communication is affected. In a long distance relationship,
communication is the only string which binds two people and when that breaks,
problem in relationship is inevitable.
3.Doubts
The pillar of trust needs to be strong to
assure longevity in the relationship. A single stain of doubt can weaken it and
after all the fights and explanation, silence sets in which kills the
relationship. Doubt is the one of the most dangerous and unnoticed mistakes,
which sets in distance.
4.Lack Of Excitement
Excitement knows no age. Many people stop
all the exciting things which they one's did because they are ageing. With no
excitement, life becomes very boring and it' human nature which demands
variety. Thus, bring in some activity in your love life to keep up the charm.
Avoid these four mistakes to blur the distance in the relationship
and enjoy the intimacy which you once enjoyed.
