Susan, my friend, spends one hour at night on the terrace. Walking down the terrace she remembers this was exactly the place where her best friend had proposed her. It was 15th of December, very cold and she was there sitting on the railing talking to him, when he suddenly proposed. She was not expecting this to happen but something in her was very happy and exactly after three days she said yes to him and now after two years of relationship, the excitement is over and they barely find topic to talk. Love still prevails but something has disturbed the behaviour.
This story apart from her is true for many others and the only solution to distance in a relationship is to understand the reason. The reason usually is some unnoticed mistakes which one make in the relationship.
Some mistakes which causes distance in relationship-
One of the basic mistakes which brings distance in relationship is work. Career is important but in the race to achieve the career aim, sometimes we forget the person whom we love. 24X7 jobs are growing up to become the major reason for relationship problems. Thus, the step to happy relationship is a perfect balance. You can be workaholic in office but at home you have to play the role of a family person.
Distance causes distance in relationship. Less time of communication, lack of meetings and time gap of the day, creates distance and thus communication is affected. In a long distance relationship, communication is the only string which binds two people and when that breaks, problem in relationship is inevitable.
The pillar of trust needs to be strong to assure longevity in the relationship. A single stain of doubt can weaken it and after all the fights and explanation, silence sets in which kills the relationship. Doubt is the one of the most dangerous and unnoticed mistakes, which sets in distance.
4.Lack Of Excitement
Excitement knows no age. Many people stop all the exciting things which they one's did because they are ageing. With no excitement, life becomes very boring and it' human nature which demands variety. Thus, bring in some activity in your love life to keep up the charm.
Avoid these four mistakes to blur the distance in the relationship and enjoy the intimacy which you once enjoyed.