We are celebrating Navratri and Durga Puja this week. And this article is our tribute to the powerful female aspects. And by 'powerful' we mean someone who is influential & independent (both emotionally and financially). We believe that power resides within every woman and the modern woman has actually given vent to it. Famous author P.C Cast had said while introducing her Goddess summoning series of novels, 'Every woman deserves to be treated like a goddess'.
So here we are telling you how to love a powerful woman and make her feel like a goddess.
Damsel in distress:
The first thing that you need to understand about a powerful woman is that she is not a damsel in distress. She knows how to take care of herself and probably knows it better than you do. Men just love women who are damsels in distress and sometimes, the self-reliant aspect of a woman can put them off.
Do you care for her:
While you are not supposed to treat her like a 'poor little thing', you cannot treat her like a stranger either. When you are dealing with a powerful woman, you need to draw a line as to how much concern you show for her. You still need to show her that you care for her. This is because not because she is a woman. Every human being wants to be cared for.
Feminism of respect:
Most men cannot love women who call themselves feminists because men do not understand feminism. Feminism does not mean hating men, it means getting respect where it is needed. You can respect her opinion and value it, because that is all she wants.
Earlier women expected financial support from their men, that was the source of a man's power. The powerful woman of today needs no financial security from her man. Thus, men start feeling useless in front of them. But you can still offer her the most important thing in life, that is emotional security.
Spoil her silly:
She may be hard to please boss at her work place, but every woman has the secret desire to be pampered. You don't need to support her financially, but you can make your presence felt in her life by spoiling her with small gifts and luxuries in the world.
It is not easy for a man to love a woman who is powerful. But if you can do it then there is nothing like it in the world. The best way to celebrate the power of women is to appreciate and love the women in your life.