Is it good to fall in love
fast? Falling in love quickly with a special someone can seem like a
magical rush, but should you jump in headfirst or wait until you’re
certain this person is the one?
Click here to read the introduction on how long does it really take to fall in love?
Falling in love quickly
Falling in love fast is easy, and at times, even inevitable.
There are many people who think they’ve found the one just because the first few months of love have been perfect.
But in reality, the first few months are when we’re lost in the haze
of romance, have loads of fun, and spend all the time we can with each
other.
Are you falling in love fast?
The first few months of young love is easy, but then gradually the romance vanishes.
There are people who break up once they’ve hit the five-month period just so they can keep the excitement alive.
For some, being in a committed relationship is boring. And this happens to be the predominant perspective most people have.
But regardless of how relationships end, what really matters in love
is how it begins, and how you actually end up falling in love with
someone.
Are you ready to fall in love fast?
Love is a culmination of many things . For starters, both of you should be very comfortable with each other.
You should be comfortable enough to
reveal your stupid side and yet laugh about it together, instead of
covering up your flaws or feeling embarrassed about it when you’re
together.
A perfect relationship is like a fancy
shirt or an elegant dress in a swanky store. It may look pretty and
perfect in the rack, but if it doesn’t look good on you or if it’s not
your size then there’s no point buying it, because you’re never going to
be happy with it. So what does one do?
Simple, you move on and look for
something that fits you better. The same goes for falling in love and
falling in love fast. You should be able to compensate and compromise
*but that doesn’t mean you should become a doormat* and when you are in
love, compromising, caring, feeling good, being happy, all of this comes
effortlessly. Because love is effortless. It’s not something you can
force upon someone.
Should you fall in love quickly?
Love takes time, and falling in love
quickly is never the path to a long and happy relationship. Never jump
to conclusions when it comes to love. Scrutinize, analyze, overanalyze
if you have to, but don’t rush it. If something’s not working out, give
it time. Talk it out with your partner, because love is something that’s
not very easy to understand. It’s unpredictable. And falling in love
quickly can cloud all these details until it’s too late.
You may be obsessing over somebody but
“The One” may be sitting right next to you. Never go looking for love
and never have exceedingly high expectations from love, because if it
doesn’t turn out right, you would end up disappointed and disheartened.
Finding your true love
The person who you are in love with should be your rock, your
security and your confidante. You should be able to turn to your partner
whenever you need a shoulder. It’s true that girls can turn to their
girl friends whenever they want to as do the boys and their guy time
issues. But there are always times when we need that special someone,
the one we fondly call our soul mate.
When you feel the most happiest and secure with that one special
person, only then are you really in love. It may take time to fall in
love, but when it does happen, there’s nothing like it. So don’t fall in
love fast even if you can’t help it. All we need is just a little
patience. Yup! Patience and a little perseverance will do the trick.
Did you know that, when you are in love,
it actually shows on the outside? You smile brighter and wider and your
skin glows! So what if it’s just bread and jam and beer for dinner
under a little blue light in his studio apartment or a room in the cheap
side of town?
To share true love, it’s all you need.
That little place has everything and more than what a glitzy restaurant
has! Good food, amazing ambience, romantic lighting, and bean bags for
chairs and privacy! Need we say more? Oh yeah, it’s very economical as
well!
Take time to fall in love instead of falling in love quickly
So the next time you profess to the world that you are in “love”,
think twice, think thrice. Don’t just rush in, take time to fall in
love, because almost all the time love doesn’t happen at first sight,
infatuation does.
It takes time, and that’s the way it should be. Try it, test the
waters and even if it doesn’t feel right, don’t give up easily because
the earth has a lot of water and there is plenty of fish in the sea. And
somewhere out there, there’ll be a fish that’s meant just for you.
Now falling in love fast isn’t
always a bad thing. But then again, if you do intend to spend the rest
of your lives together, why rush it anyways? Take your time and avoid
falling in love quickly. Instead, let your love blossom and fill your
life one day at a time.
