It’s very easy to get swayed and give in to temptation. But it’s a sign of a weak man; a strong man will stand by his love and respect his marriage. Do you want to be the weak man or the strong one? If you are finding it hard to stay strong and not give in to infidelity, these pointers could boost your moral stand.
1. Wear your wedding ring at all times
Make sure you have your wedding ring on at all times. It’s a sacred sign of marriage and commitment which tells the world that you are taken. Women will avoid approaching you if they know you are not single.
2. Avoid going to strip clubs and bars
Why invite infidelity to your doorstep and with it the many problems that follow? If you are unhappy with your marriage, discuss it with your wife, consult a counselor, but don’t indulge in cheap thrills like strip clubs and dance bars that will do nothing but tempt you into sin.
3. Think about your wedding vows
The vows taken during a wedding by both partners have lots of significance. Know their meaning and importance. Think about why you got married, the lovely times spent with your better half, and how someone can ruin all of this if they find you weak enough to let it all go.
4. Think about your wife and the positives of your marriage
When on the verge of starting an affair with someone else, spare a thought for your loving wife, kids and your marriage as a whole. You married her for a reason; she is your best friend and lover. You cannot throw it all away for momentary pleasure.
5. Think about the consequences
Lest your infidelity is caught, what would happen? Think of the consequences that could wreck lives of not just you and your wife but also your families and kids if any. The family you invested in and nurtured, will be over due to a silly folly.
6. Don’t get overfriendly with women
Keep cordial relations with the other females in your life, but don’t get overfriendly. Men and women both know when they are crossing the line and giving signals to the opposite sex regarding their interest. If you find yourself doing so, stop immediately.
7. Communicate daily with your wife
Don’t let your marriage lose spark or fade out. Communicate everyday with your wife and try different things in the bedroom so as to spice up your married life and to avoid going for other women who may not even be as desirable as your wife is.
8. Change your status on Facebook
If you are a married man, you ought to be proud enough to announce it to the world by changing your Facebook relationship status to ‘Married.’ This will keep home wreckers at bay and won’t give women who may be interested in you, the wrong impression of your single status.
9. Don’t meet women alone
Meeting up women alone, be it a long lost friend, your childhood friend, office colleague for work purposes or even your wife’s sister, is not a good idea. Meeting them once is fine, but make sure you have some company next time. This is because, it’s very easy and common for men to feel attraction only because of the thrill of being with a woman other than their wives.
1. Wear your wedding ring at all times
Make sure you have your wedding ring on at all times. It’s a sacred sign of marriage and commitment which tells the world that you are taken. Women will avoid approaching you if they know you are not single.
2. Avoid going to strip clubs and bars
Why invite infidelity to your doorstep and with it the many problems that follow? If you are unhappy with your marriage, discuss it with your wife, consult a counselor, but don’t indulge in cheap thrills like strip clubs and dance bars that will do nothing but tempt you into sin.
3. Think about your wedding vows
The vows taken during a wedding by both partners have lots of significance. Know their meaning and importance. Think about why you got married, the lovely times spent with your better half, and how someone can ruin all of this if they find you weak enough to let it all go.
4. Think about your wife and the positives of your marriage
When on the verge of starting an affair with someone else, spare a thought for your loving wife, kids and your marriage as a whole. You married her for a reason; she is your best friend and lover. You cannot throw it all away for momentary pleasure.
5. Think about the consequences
Lest your infidelity is caught, what would happen? Think of the consequences that could wreck lives of not just you and your wife but also your families and kids if any. The family you invested in and nurtured, will be over due to a silly folly.
6. Don’t get overfriendly with women
Keep cordial relations with the other females in your life, but don’t get overfriendly. Men and women both know when they are crossing the line and giving signals to the opposite sex regarding their interest. If you find yourself doing so, stop immediately.
7. Communicate daily with your wife
Don’t let your marriage lose spark or fade out. Communicate everyday with your wife and try different things in the bedroom so as to spice up your married life and to avoid going for other women who may not even be as desirable as your wife is.
8. Change your status on Facebook
If you are a married man, you ought to be proud enough to announce it to the world by changing your Facebook relationship status to ‘Married.’ This will keep home wreckers at bay and won’t give women who may be interested in you, the wrong impression of your single status.
9. Don’t meet women alone
Meeting up women alone, be it a long lost friend, your childhood friend, office colleague for work purposes or even your wife’s sister, is not a good idea. Meeting them once is fine, but make sure you have some company next time. This is because, it’s very easy and common for men to feel attraction only because of the thrill of being with a woman other than their wives.
