When you really like a girl, you tend to go overboard with everything. Rather than getting the result that you expect by trying so hard, you often get the opposite reaction from her. So how can you know that you are overdoing it? To help yourself, look for these 5 signs that show you are trying too hard to impress her:
1. She doesn’t look impressed at all
It’s one of the biggest paradoxes of the romantic world – the harder you try to impress her, the lesser you’ll succeed in actually impressing her. So the biggest sign that you are trying too desperately is when she doesn’t get impressed at all, even after a considerable amount of time and dating.
2. All you do is think about ways of impressing her
It’s as if you don’t have anything else to do besides thinking about ways of impressing her. When that’s all you can think about, it’s a sign that you are getting too desperate and probably trying way too hard.
3. She seems to need you only when she has work
When you try too hard, one of the things that happen is that the girl starts taking you for granted. Rather than viewing you romantically, she starts perceiving you as someone who’ll be there for her at every beck and call, leaving everything to tend to her needs. Take a critical look at yourself and see if that’s what is happening to you. Do you really want to be her pet dog?
4. She doesn’t really ‘reciprocate’
It’s always you who is calling her up, it’s you who is setting up dates and giving her gifts. Everything that is going on in the relationship seems to depend on your initiative and actions. She doesn’t really ‘reciprocate’ or show a romantic interest in you.
5. She doesn’t want to ‘show you off’ to her friends
When a girl really likes her guy, she wants to show him off to her girl friends. But if she is embarrassed being seen with you in her circle or doesn’t show any interest in inviting you to her friends’ parties, then probably she is not impressed by you at all. That’s why she has no intention to be your date in social settings.
If you find these signs, it’s probably time to wake up and face the reality.
1. She doesn’t look impressed at all
It’s one of the biggest paradoxes of the romantic world – the harder you try to impress her, the lesser you’ll succeed in actually impressing her. So the biggest sign that you are trying too desperately is when she doesn’t get impressed at all, even after a considerable amount of time and dating.
2. All you do is think about ways of impressing her
It’s as if you don’t have anything else to do besides thinking about ways of impressing her. When that’s all you can think about, it’s a sign that you are getting too desperate and probably trying way too hard.
3. She seems to need you only when she has work
When you try too hard, one of the things that happen is that the girl starts taking you for granted. Rather than viewing you romantically, she starts perceiving you as someone who’ll be there for her at every beck and call, leaving everything to tend to her needs. Take a critical look at yourself and see if that’s what is happening to you. Do you really want to be her pet dog?
4. She doesn’t really ‘reciprocate’
It’s always you who is calling her up, it’s you who is setting up dates and giving her gifts. Everything that is going on in the relationship seems to depend on your initiative and actions. She doesn’t really ‘reciprocate’ or show a romantic interest in you.
5. She doesn’t want to ‘show you off’ to her friends
When a girl really likes her guy, she wants to show him off to her girl friends. But if she is embarrassed being seen with you in her circle or doesn’t show any interest in inviting you to her friends’ parties, then probably she is not impressed by you at all. That’s why she has no intention to be your date in social settings.
If you find these signs, it’s probably time to wake up and face the reality.
