Some guys spend their whole life being a buddy to the girl of their dreams as they can never break out of the all dreaded “friend zone” with her, and before these idiots know it, she is gone. So if you don’t want to be one of them, make sure to go through this article and follow the instructions to boot. Else, rest assured, it will be all downhill from here on.
1. Make use of all the premium information you got
Being a friend with a girl has its advantages. For instance, you have access to a whole lot of information the other guys don’t, like her favorite hangout zone and her idea of a perfect guy, etc. So delve deep into this storehouse of knowledge and use it to your advantage.
2. Change for the better
No one is perfect, and hence the quest for perfection is continuous. Start hitting the gym or change your hairstyle or anything else that will make her sit up and take notice.
3. Try some mild flirting
Don’t expect to just break the news to her. Start flirting with her, but make sure you are subtle. Else, she will just get bewildered at why her friend is acting so weird all of a sudden. See her reaction and then decide your future course of action.
4. Pretend you got a girl
It is a universal fact that girls are jealous of other girls. Use this knowledge as a weapon against her. Tell her about your imaginary girlfriend and your romantic exploits with her and watch her reaction. If she has even a tiny bit of feeling for you, she will definitely go crazy at this new development.
5. Don’t be just a shoulder to cry on
It is not only important to know what to do but also what not to do. For starters, stop being a handkerchief for her. Some girls just use guys as an emotional support and when the job is done, just look the other way.
6. Get touchy feely
Make sure not to overdo it else you will scare her off, and worse still, destroy every little feeling she might have for you. Just break the touch barrier and see her reaction. A little pressure on her forearm or a glance over her hair should do the trick.
7. Stop being a good guy
This doesn’t mean you have to start looking like a gangster all of a sudden but at least get over your “boy next door” image. Give her a glimpse of the tough guy within you, and see whether she goes weak in the knees or just laughs at the change. If it’s the first, half the job is done. If it’s the second, you can go back to being her lifelong friend.
8. Never act like a creep
As we have been stating again and again, the key to success here is being subtle. If you change overnight, and start acting like any regular pervert, you can forget the possibility of any relationship with her, and start looking for a new girl friend.
9. Don’t try to break her relationship
Stop being selfish, and start thinking about her for a change. Just because she doesn’t seem to have any romantic interest in you, doesn’t give you the right to break her off with her present boyfriend in the hope that she will come running into your arms.
10. Speak your heart out
Most guys can’t come out of the friend zone because they don’t have the guts to lay open their heart in front of their crush. Don’t keep quiet just because you fear the friendship might come to an end. There’s no point in suffering from this silent torture all the time. Rather just get it all out in the open, and see what destiny has in store for you.
1. Make use of all the premium information you got
Being a friend with a girl has its advantages. For instance, you have access to a whole lot of information the other guys don’t, like her favorite hangout zone and her idea of a perfect guy, etc. So delve deep into this storehouse of knowledge and use it to your advantage.
2. Change for the better
No one is perfect, and hence the quest for perfection is continuous. Start hitting the gym or change your hairstyle or anything else that will make her sit up and take notice.
3. Try some mild flirting
Don’t expect to just break the news to her. Start flirting with her, but make sure you are subtle. Else, she will just get bewildered at why her friend is acting so weird all of a sudden. See her reaction and then decide your future course of action.
4. Pretend you got a girl
It is a universal fact that girls are jealous of other girls. Use this knowledge as a weapon against her. Tell her about your imaginary girlfriend and your romantic exploits with her and watch her reaction. If she has even a tiny bit of feeling for you, she will definitely go crazy at this new development.
5. Don’t be just a shoulder to cry on
It is not only important to know what to do but also what not to do. For starters, stop being a handkerchief for her. Some girls just use guys as an emotional support and when the job is done, just look the other way.
6. Get touchy feely
Make sure not to overdo it else you will scare her off, and worse still, destroy every little feeling she might have for you. Just break the touch barrier and see her reaction. A little pressure on her forearm or a glance over her hair should do the trick.
7. Stop being a good guy
This doesn’t mean you have to start looking like a gangster all of a sudden but at least get over your “boy next door” image. Give her a glimpse of the tough guy within you, and see whether she goes weak in the knees or just laughs at the change. If it’s the first, half the job is done. If it’s the second, you can go back to being her lifelong friend.
8. Never act like a creep
As we have been stating again and again, the key to success here is being subtle. If you change overnight, and start acting like any regular pervert, you can forget the possibility of any relationship with her, and start looking for a new girl friend.
9. Don’t try to break her relationship
Stop being selfish, and start thinking about her for a change. Just because she doesn’t seem to have any romantic interest in you, doesn’t give you the right to break her off with her present boyfriend in the hope that she will come running into your arms.
10. Speak your heart out
Most guys can’t come out of the friend zone because they don’t have the guts to lay open their heart in front of their crush. Don’t keep quiet just because you fear the friendship might come to an end. There’s no point in suffering from this silent torture all the time. Rather just get it all out in the open, and see what destiny has in store for you.
