Have you always wondered what that popular guy in college had that you didn’t? Or is it at work that you envy that smooth charmer everyone loves to listen to,
while you sit in the corner, at your desk, looking pretty much like the plant in the opposite corner, who nobody really cares to know about? Well, your dilemma is that people around do not like you, and this is so because they probably do not know you well enough! MensXP gives you the 4-step route to become more likeable and even popular amongst the people you come across in your daily life:
Step 1: Learn to Like Yourself
This first step towards becoming a more likeable person is to learn to like yourself. In fact, unless you love who you are, how can you expect that others will? Therefore, it is extremely critical to have a high sense of self-esteem and level of confidence. Once you start feeling confident and self-reliant, the effects will radiate through your eyes, actions and your entire persona, giving you the will and spirit to attract the right-willed people toward you.
Step 2: Do Not Push People to Like You
Trying too hard often results in failure rather than in the desired effect. Therefore, learn to keep away from tactics to impress people. Rather, concentrate on building your own skills and qualifications. Those are better measures of becoming not just more likeable, but also a better person with a better personality.
Step 3: Do Good to Others
Once you have attained self-respect and confidence and started focusing on developing your skills and potential, start implementing them too. Yes, this means that you start doing good unto others. The most unselfish acts are often the causes of the deepest levels of satisfaction.
Step 4: Think Positively and Feel Happy
Being an optimist solves almost half of life’s problems. It keeps you healthy. It keeps your mind more active and makes it more productive. And, of course, it makes you more popular amongst your friends and family. Who wants to hang around a dull and pessimistic person anyway?
The four steps mentioned above are a sure-shot method of achieving that quality that makes people like an individual. In fact, anyone you come across in any walk of life is certain to get drawn towards you for the pleasing personality and the positive energy that emanates from you. So, go ahead and do good, and be good!