Knowing how to be attractive to women is not about how good or bad you look. This is where the vast majority of men get it wrong. In terms of getting a women interested, all other things being equal, good looking guys only have about 30 seconds of a head start to engage a woman than not so good looking guys. That’s it. 30 seconds. True, good looking guys will get noticed first, but if a good looking guy approaches a woman for the first time and cannot give the woman a good enough reason to continue talking to him within 30 seconds, he will most likely get rejected just like all the other not so good looking men. The most important component of how to be attractive to women is keeping the woman engaged.
With that in mind, here are 5 additional tips on how to be attractive to women:
1. Demonstrate A Lack Of Neediness
When you demonstrate a lack of neediness, you give off the impression that you’re a man who could care less whether she’s attracted to you or not. Ironically, not caring about the outcome also makes you more of a challenge which builds attraction for you anyways.. Being un-needy also makes her feel like you’re not just trying to get into her pants. This is a very powerful part of how to be attractive to women because it distinguishes you from most of the other guys that she meets.
2. Display Your Determination
No woman wants to be with a man who has the determination of a fast food worker. Granted, there are fast food workers who have the right amount of determination, but if you’re comfortable working in fast food for the rest of your life, don’t expect her to follow along with you. Show her that you have drive, determination and ambition. Show her that you want to be the best at what you do. When it comes to how to be attractive to women, you have to be passionate about your life goals and achievements. The best part is, women aren’t necessarily attracted to men who have done great things, just as long as you’re a man who has the potential to do great things.
3. Work With What You’ve Got
Like I mentioned before, you don’t have to be the best looking guy on the planet to be attractive to women, but you do have to work with what you’ve got. You can’t expect a woman to like you if you wear clothes that don’t fit or aren’t in style, you don’t bathe or clean yourself, and you don’t keep up your physical fitness. If you’re a not so good looking guy, you don’t want to make yourself look even worse. And if you’re a good looking guy, you have no excuses not to work with what you’ve already got. .
4. Make Your Lifestyle Appealing
Do you think a woman would be more attracted to a world renown magician or a newspaper deliveryman? A big part of how to be attractive to women is to find and do things that are attractive to you or to people in general. Good examples are: magic, art, inventions, travel, and history. If anything, don’t make watching TV the most appealing thing you do all week. Get out there and have some fun!
5. Listen and Relate
When I ask women why they like a particular guy, a couple of the most common responses I get are “He just gets me” or “When I’m with him, he makes me feel like I’m the only person in the world that matters.” This isn’t to say suck up to women or put women on a pedestal. This is saying that women love to feel understood and connected to a guy who actively wants to hear what she has to say. Most guys will pretend to care, but few will actually listen and relate.