Is your love life less than luscious? Are you waiting for your man to turn into Don Juan and sweep you off your feet? If it hasn't happened yet, chances are it's not going to. So why not take the bull by the horns and create the juicy love life of your dreams?
Now, I know many of you are thinking, "Why me?" I have too much on my plate as it is. But have you thought about what the cost of "doing nothing" romantically is doing to your relationship? If you want to dodge the divorce dragon, you can't leave it all up to your man. You need to implement some fun idea's on your own to create the relationship you want and deserve.
Now's the time to throw out the rules of society and all those limiting beliefs that don't serve your fantastical vision of love so that you can live, laugh, and love with total freedom! Forget about what you've been raised to believe about who should do the romancing - step outside the box by taking these 5 steps:
Step #1
Assess the current state of your romantic relationship. Are you bored? Are you lonely? Does date night mean staying in and watching the same movie for the 3rd time and ordering Chinese take-out? If this is you, know that you don't have to settle for such a lack luster love life.
Step #2
Define what you want. How do you want your relationship to be? What do you envision? Do you dream of passionate, steamy interludes? Do you crave more connection and intimate bonding? Be clear on what you want and set that vision into motion by focusing on having it.
Step #3
Discover what's holding you back from having what you want. Are you waiting around for him to make the moves? Are you holding on to resentment? Are you hiding behind low self-esteem and lack of confidence. Any cultural or societal rules that hold you back? Now's the time to ditch the resistance.
Step #4
Empower yourself with permission to have what you want. Know that whatever is holding you back is robbing you of your dreams. Know that you deserve that luscious love life and allow yourself to have it. Start letting your dreamy romantic visions have a life.
Step #5
Take responsibility to fire up your own engines and create some sensual romantic interludes. Be bold. Be daring. Take the bull by the horns and go for it! If you are not creative, look for a friend or expert to help you.
If you follow this relationship advice and unleash your sensual Self, you will get the romance back in your relationship. Another bonus- you'll improve your connection to Self, your lover and your fabulous friends who will support and encourage your fun and flirty escapades. It's an overall win/win - woohoo!
