“High maintenance” are the two words that make guys shit in their pants, and leave women around the globe flaming with anger and denial. Try as you may, it is virtually impossible to not cross paths with a high maintenance woman in life. If you do, here is how to deal with her, so that you remain sane and know how to deal with the pain and frustration.
1. Avoid:
This is the first thing you should do when you absolutely have to deal with a high maintenance woman. Avoid her, at all costs. Ignore and pretend that you didn’t listen, concentrate on your phone. Just avoid her as much as you can. Because she is high maintenance, she will probably go nuts and do whatever it is that she wanted from you herself.
2. Vent it out:
Find a confidante and when that high maintenance chick gets too bossy and demanding and you cannot take it anymore, let the word vomit out. After vicious rambling, you will feel better and you can go back to calmly avoiding her.
3. Be busy, always:
If you want to not deal with a high maintenance woman, you always need to appear overloaded with work. Whenever she wants all the attention and wants something done to perfection, you are so busy that you can politely refuse and go your separate way.
4. Manipulate her into working:
When Miss high Maintenance asks you something, and you sort of have to do it; do it in a manner you know she will not approve of, be all clumsy, and eventually she will end up doing it herself.
5. Set her up:
Let her take all her high maintenance with her and take it out with the poor guy with whom you set her up. She steers clear of your life, and you can breathe and live in peace.
6. Cut her out:
If nothing works, simply cut her out and let her go if that is an option. Otherwise, suck it up and deal with her if you do not want to cut her out. Your choice.
1. Avoid:
This is the first thing you should do when you absolutely have to deal with a high maintenance woman. Avoid her, at all costs. Ignore and pretend that you didn’t listen, concentrate on your phone. Just avoid her as much as you can. Because she is high maintenance, she will probably go nuts and do whatever it is that she wanted from you herself.
2. Vent it out:
Find a confidante and when that high maintenance chick gets too bossy and demanding and you cannot take it anymore, let the word vomit out. After vicious rambling, you will feel better and you can go back to calmly avoiding her.
3. Be busy, always:
If you want to not deal with a high maintenance woman, you always need to appear overloaded with work. Whenever she wants all the attention and wants something done to perfection, you are so busy that you can politely refuse and go your separate way.
4. Manipulate her into working:
When Miss high Maintenance asks you something, and you sort of have to do it; do it in a manner you know she will not approve of, be all clumsy, and eventually she will end up doing it herself.
5. Set her up:
Let her take all her high maintenance with her and take it out with the poor guy with whom you set her up. She steers clear of your life, and you can breathe and live in peace.
6. Cut her out:
If nothing works, simply cut her out and let her go if that is an option. Otherwise, suck it up and deal with her if you do not want to cut her out. Your choice.
High maintenance becomes highly annoying only if they are incapable of laughing at themselves. Also, more often than not, high maintenance people generally are looking for perfection and pampering, so if you can learn something from them, why not?
