Long distance relationships (LDRs) are never easy and it takes a lot of commitment from both the sides to sustain it. But if you are sure that she is the one, here are some tips on how to not only keep the love alive but also make your LDR girlfriend miss you like never before.
1. Talk like you always did
You can’t go on dates any more nor can you share intimate moments with her. So at least try to speak as much as possible. Girls have always complained that guys just suck over the phone, so here is the chance to prove them all wrong.
2. Use social networking sites to your advantage
Post photos of places you visit, and ping her about any fun stuff you are doing. Show her all the fun she is missing out on. But don’t stalk her like a creep and keep liking and commenting on her posts. Keep it simple.
3. Try video chats
Long gone are the days of snail mail. So make use of the technology at your disposal. Video chats can be the next best thing after real face-to-face chats. Besides, seeing each other now and then helps to keep memories alive. You could also try some intimate chats when no
one is there.
4. Remember important occasions
Don’t forget her birthday or the anniversary or you could be in for some serious trouble. The fact that you remembered will show her that you do care and she will miss you more.
5. Keep jealousy at bay
So here is what not to do. Don’t question her why she didn’t pick up the call or who the guy in her photos are. Girls want you to trust them and if you seem okay with whatever she is doing, she will realize your worth once more.
6. Send her gifts
You could just order her a bouquet of flowers on V-day or any other gift on her birthday. You may not be there but at least these little gestures will remind her of what she is missing by staying away from you.
7. Be there when she needs you
No matter how strong girls pretend to be, they need someone to be there for them now and then. Make sure you are that guy. So don’t just cut the line because it’s 3 am in the
morning but make sure you are there to comfort her all the time.
8. Avoid fights
Try to avoid fights or even minor quarrels as the distance will only make it tougher for you two to reconcile. Try to be an understanding boyfriend and put up with her occasional mood swings. It will only show her what a great boyfriend you are and make her yearn for you more.
1. Talk like you always did
You can’t go on dates any more nor can you share intimate moments with her. So at least try to speak as much as possible. Girls have always complained that guys just suck over the phone, so here is the chance to prove them all wrong.
2. Use social networking sites to your advantage
Post photos of places you visit, and ping her about any fun stuff you are doing. Show her all the fun she is missing out on. But don’t stalk her like a creep and keep liking and commenting on her posts. Keep it simple.
3. Try video chats
Long gone are the days of snail mail. So make use of the technology at your disposal. Video chats can be the next best thing after real face-to-face chats. Besides, seeing each other now and then helps to keep memories alive. You could also try some intimate chats when no
one is there.
4. Remember important occasions
Don’t forget her birthday or the anniversary or you could be in for some serious trouble. The fact that you remembered will show her that you do care and she will miss you more.
5. Keep jealousy at bay
So here is what not to do. Don’t question her why she didn’t pick up the call or who the guy in her photos are. Girls want you to trust them and if you seem okay with whatever she is doing, she will realize your worth once more.
6. Send her gifts
You could just order her a bouquet of flowers on V-day or any other gift on her birthday. You may not be there but at least these little gestures will remind her of what she is missing by staying away from you.
7. Be there when she needs you
No matter how strong girls pretend to be, they need someone to be there for them now and then. Make sure you are that guy. So don’t just cut the line because it’s 3 am in the
morning but make sure you are there to comfort her all the time.
8. Avoid fights
Try to avoid fights or even minor quarrels as the distance will only make it tougher for you two to reconcile. Try to be an understanding boyfriend and put up with her occasional mood swings. It will only show her what a great boyfriend you are and make her yearn for you more.
