When it comes to women, there’s no easy way getting rid of them. Unfriending her subtly is quite a task and a guy should do it quite skillfully so as to avoid the melodrama and consequent heartache. Read on to know how you can do so:
1. Remove her from your group list of multiple recipients
You might be simply forwarding jokes to your friends but she’ll cherish that message as something ‘personal’ that you wanted to convey exclusively to her. What’s worse, you might not have an idea that you sent the message to her too. So the first thing you need to do is to remove her from any group list to which you send messages or mails regularly.
2. Become a busy bee
As far as she is concerned, you should be as busy as a bee. The busier, the better! Make sure that she gets an idea that you are way too busy for anything in life.
3. Politely say ‘no’
If she invites you over, or asks you for movies or for a casual cup of coffee; just politely say no. Come up with an explanation and politely excuse yourself.
4. Avoid common friends
If you want to unfriend her, it might be a good idea to unfriend common friends too. If she realizes that you are mingling with her friends but not with her, then it won’t be so subtle at all!
5. Change your facebook settings
Customize your facebook and change your account settings so as to ‘hide’ yourself from her. The option is available in Custom Settings where you can choose who gets to see your posts/ updates and who doesn’t.
6. Plan so that you don’t bump into her
Out of sight, out of mind – that’s the aim you should be looking at. Try to stay physically away from her, as much as possible.
7. Delay responding to her
If she calls, let it ring. If she calls again, let it ring again. Do not respond immediately. Delay responding to her calls and messages so that she gradually gets the drift over a period of time. Also, the frequency of your communication should be the bare minimum limited only to social courtesy.
So follow these 7 steps to unfriend her, subtly and quietly!
1. Remove her from your group list of multiple recipients
You might be simply forwarding jokes to your friends but she’ll cherish that message as something ‘personal’ that you wanted to convey exclusively to her. What’s worse, you might not have an idea that you sent the message to her too. So the first thing you need to do is to remove her from any group list to which you send messages or mails regularly.
2. Become a busy bee
As far as she is concerned, you should be as busy as a bee. The busier, the better! Make sure that she gets an idea that you are way too busy for anything in life.
3. Politely say ‘no’
If she invites you over, or asks you for movies or for a casual cup of coffee; just politely say no. Come up with an explanation and politely excuse yourself.
4. Avoid common friends
If you want to unfriend her, it might be a good idea to unfriend common friends too. If she realizes that you are mingling with her friends but not with her, then it won’t be so subtle at all!
5. Change your facebook settings
Customize your facebook and change your account settings so as to ‘hide’ yourself from her. The option is available in Custom Settings where you can choose who gets to see your posts/ updates and who doesn’t.
6. Plan so that you don’t bump into her
Out of sight, out of mind – that’s the aim you should be looking at. Try to stay physically away from her, as much as possible.
7. Delay responding to her
If she calls, let it ring. If she calls again, let it ring again. Do not respond immediately. Delay responding to her calls and messages so that she gradually gets the drift over a period of time. Also, the frequency of your communication should be the bare minimum limited only to social courtesy.
So follow these 7 steps to unfriend her, subtly and quietly!
