The emotions of women are hard to cope up with, more so if you are on the verge of breaking up with them. You never know how they will react, so it’s better to be on the safer side and do what you have to do with tact, sans bad blood or emotional drama.
1.Break the news in real
Whatever happens, do not break up over text, email, letters or even video chat. Be sensitive to the feelings of someone you dated and once loved. Meeting up to break the news shows that you have manners and are chivalrous too, one less reason for her to complain.
2.Explain the reason clearly
Surely you owe her an explanation for the break up. Be clear about the cause of the split, don’t be vague and get her frustrated over guessing about what went wrong.
3.Do it privately
You never know how the break up will affect her. Even if you have known her to be calm and practical, most women end to show knee-jerk reactions and get violent, argumentative or cranky. Hence, to avoid making a scene in public, tell her about your decision in a private place where only you both are present.
4.Don’t talk about it with others
The worst situation is when mutual friends and families get involved. Let her say whatever she wants to but for the sake of maintaining your dignity, keep mum. If others ask you the reason, tell them there were problems and nothing more. Don’t get into details and washing dirty linen in public.
5.Console her
Just because you broke up with her doesn’t mean you turn into a heartless guy who becomes immune to her sorrow. If she starts crying, give her a shoulder to cry on, console her and tell her that i’ts not her fault, whatever the truth may be. However, don’t get swayed by your emotions, and be firm with your decision to split.
6.Don’t rake up past disagreements and avoid a huge fight
As much as possible, avoid getting into huge arguments and showdowns. Don’t rake up past mistakes of her’s to defend your current stance. Tell her you wish for her best but the relationship isn’t working.
1.Break the news in real
Whatever happens, do not break up over text, email, letters or even video chat. Be sensitive to the feelings of someone you dated and once loved. Meeting up to break the news shows that you have manners and are chivalrous too, one less reason for her to complain.
2.Explain the reason clearly
Surely you owe her an explanation for the break up. Be clear about the cause of the split, don’t be vague and get her frustrated over guessing about what went wrong.
3.Do it privately
You never know how the break up will affect her. Even if you have known her to be calm and practical, most women end to show knee-jerk reactions and get violent, argumentative or cranky. Hence, to avoid making a scene in public, tell her about your decision in a private place where only you both are present.
4.Don’t talk about it with others
The worst situation is when mutual friends and families get involved. Let her say whatever she wants to but for the sake of maintaining your dignity, keep mum. If others ask you the reason, tell them there were problems and nothing more. Don’t get into details and washing dirty linen in public.
5.Console her
Just because you broke up with her doesn’t mean you turn into a heartless guy who becomes immune to her sorrow. If she starts crying, give her a shoulder to cry on, console her and tell her that i’ts not her fault, whatever the truth may be. However, don’t get swayed by your emotions, and be firm with your decision to split.
6.Don’t rake up past disagreements and avoid a huge fight
As much as possible, avoid getting into huge arguments and showdowns. Don’t rake up past mistakes of her’s to defend your current stance. Tell her you wish for her best but the relationship isn’t working.
