Men are known to be wired differently than women. This can cause a gap in understanding between husbands and wives in various matters of relationships and life. On being probed, most husbands are likely to have a list of things they wish their wives knew. Are any of the below elements a part of your list for your wife?
1. If our wives are not happy, we get immensely affected
Women tend to think that their husbands don’t really care about their happiness after marriage in the way that they used to before. For husbands, that may not be the case. Husbands may feel extremely frustrated and incapacitated when their wives are unhappy. It’s just that they have a different way of expressing it.
2. We don’t look at other women as often as you think we do
Women are known to often accuse men of flirting with other women and losing interest once they tie the knot. Against this, men plea that not all of them are the cheating type that their wives make them like. Many men tend to be very happy that they married their wives and may never feel the need to flirt with another woman.
3. We think we are responsible for running the household
Even in the time and age when a couple goes out into the workforce and earn a similar pay, husbands may still feel that responsibility of the house lies on them. Husbands may not say this explicitly but definitely wish their wife knew how they feel about this. Even if their wives earn as much as they do, men tend to get an ego boost out of feeling responsible for running their household and servicing the needs of their family. This is something that husbands wish their wives knew and understood.
4. We feel over protective about you and sometimes we may even be jealous
Husbands wish they could tell their wives straight up that they love being Superman for their wives, protecting them from all the troubles of the world. They would also want their wives to know that they may still get jealous if they spot other men eyeing their sweetheart.
5. We need to talk about our insecurities too
Many husbands would want their wives to know that sometimes they need a shoulder to lean on too. They may not cry, sob or whine endlessly, but they too can be emotionally vulnerable. Husbands could fear opening up to their wives about this because they wouldn’t want their wives to think any lesser of them when they discuss their insecurities.
6. We love earning for you and spending it on you
Husbands may act stingy when they accompany their wives on their crazy shopping sprees. But the reality is that they don’t intend to be miserly, they just don’t like shopping. They would be very happy to splurge on their wives. They wonder why women don’t understand where their diamond rings on anniversaries and Valentine’s Day come from.
7. We may not understand subtle hints
Husbands are likely to unanimously agree on the common and simple fact that they may not understand subtle hints and things left to interpretation. Husbands may desperately wish that their wives knew about their inability to comprehend and read between the lines. Husbands like directness and straightforward talk.
8. We love it when you look pretty for us
Husbands wonder why their wives suddenly stop putting effort in dressing up and looking good after they get married. They may not say it upfront at the cost of sounding demanding, but they would love it if their wives dolled up for them once in a while. This is one of those many things that husbands wish their wives knew but would never say it aloud.
1. If our wives are not happy, we get immensely affected
Women tend to think that their husbands don’t really care about their happiness after marriage in the way that they used to before. For husbands, that may not be the case. Husbands may feel extremely frustrated and incapacitated when their wives are unhappy. It’s just that they have a different way of expressing it.
2. We don’t look at other women as often as you think we do
Women are known to often accuse men of flirting with other women and losing interest once they tie the knot. Against this, men plea that not all of them are the cheating type that their wives make them like. Many men tend to be very happy that they married their wives and may never feel the need to flirt with another woman.
3. We think we are responsible for running the household
Even in the time and age when a couple goes out into the workforce and earn a similar pay, husbands may still feel that responsibility of the house lies on them. Husbands may not say this explicitly but definitely wish their wife knew how they feel about this. Even if their wives earn as much as they do, men tend to get an ego boost out of feeling responsible for running their household and servicing the needs of their family. This is something that husbands wish their wives knew and understood.
4. We feel over protective about you and sometimes we may even be jealous
Husbands wish they could tell their wives straight up that they love being Superman for their wives, protecting them from all the troubles of the world. They would also want their wives to know that they may still get jealous if they spot other men eyeing their sweetheart.
5. We need to talk about our insecurities too
Many husbands would want their wives to know that sometimes they need a shoulder to lean on too. They may not cry, sob or whine endlessly, but they too can be emotionally vulnerable. Husbands could fear opening up to their wives about this because they wouldn’t want their wives to think any lesser of them when they discuss their insecurities.
6. We love earning for you and spending it on you
Husbands may act stingy when they accompany their wives on their crazy shopping sprees. But the reality is that they don’t intend to be miserly, they just don’t like shopping. They would be very happy to splurge on their wives. They wonder why women don’t understand where their diamond rings on anniversaries and Valentine’s Day come from.
7. We may not understand subtle hints
Husbands are likely to unanimously agree on the common and simple fact that they may not understand subtle hints and things left to interpretation. Husbands may desperately wish that their wives knew about their inability to comprehend and read between the lines. Husbands like directness and straightforward talk.
8. We love it when you look pretty for us
Husbands wonder why their wives suddenly stop putting effort in dressing up and looking good after they get married. They may not say it upfront at the cost of sounding demanding, but they would love it if their wives dolled up for them once in a while. This is one of those many things that husbands wish their wives knew but would never say it aloud.
