Many guys feel apprehensive, nervous and intimated to strike a conversation with an attractive lady whom they have set eyes on for the first time. You never know when and how you may meet someone who could change your love life for the better and hence we have listed 7 ways to approach girls in different situations and places.
1. In a cafe
You have spotted a cute girl at the cafe and you don’t know how to break the ice. This situation has happened with many men, but hardly any of them have actually had courage enough to approach the girl they desire. Firstly, make sure she is not with her boyfriend or any guy who looks like he is her partner. You can go up to her when she is ordering, to ask about the varieties available or check her out from a distance, maintain eye contact and smile slightly. If she smiles back and keeps looking your way then you can simply go up to her and introduce yourself.
2. In office
Follow the same rules of eye contact and slight smile in all situations, but make sure you don’t overdo it as it would seem desperate and the girl would get uncomfortable. If you have not been introduced in office and she is working in a totally different department, then try to go to the coffee machine or canteen around the same time as her. You can start by talking about the taste of the food or the atmosphere in the office.
3. In a club
Hardly would you ever find a girl alone in a club. She would surely have a group of friends, so if you feel intimated by her, you can approach her friend and thus reach out to the said girl. The commonest and easiest way is to request her permission to buy her a drink. You could even compliment her about her attire and then start talking about the music, DJ, etc.
4. At the gym
So many love stories happen in the gym. The gym is a relatively easier place to talk as people make common friends there. You could smile and say hi when you see her daily. You could start off by talking about a wrong technique of exercise she may be doing, the hike in gym fees or compliment her on her weight loss.
5. General places
After the initial ice is broken, it’s easy to get talking after that and eventually ask her out casually. If you happen to chance upon a nice girl in general places like bus stops, stations, theaters, malls, etc, then chances are that you have very less time on your hands to approach her. Throw a smile in her direction, albeit a casual and charming one which doesn’t look creepy. Go up to her, tell her you find her cute and interesting and get chatting about why she is there. See to it that when you approach her, she is alone or with a friend, not elders or a boyfriend.
6. At school or college
It’s easy to chat up with a girl in school or college since you would be seeing her everyday. Try to find out if you have common friends and get introduced through them. If not, then you can try to be near her while waiting for the elevator, in the canteen or nearby bus stop, while waiting for class to start, etc. This way you can talk about the lack of infrastructure, general classes or the college or school festival, upcoming events and such other happenings.
7. At a function or event
It’s common to chance upon a pretty girl at family or friends’ functions, events and parties as ladies generally look their best when they attend special occasions. Ask the host to introduce you to her or compliment her on her looks. There would surely be some common friends, so keep track of whom she is talking to, so that you can easily get in their conversation.
1. In a cafe
You have spotted a cute girl at the cafe and you don’t know how to break the ice. This situation has happened with many men, but hardly any of them have actually had courage enough to approach the girl they desire. Firstly, make sure she is not with her boyfriend or any guy who looks like he is her partner. You can go up to her when she is ordering, to ask about the varieties available or check her out from a distance, maintain eye contact and smile slightly. If she smiles back and keeps looking your way then you can simply go up to her and introduce yourself.
2. In office
Follow the same rules of eye contact and slight smile in all situations, but make sure you don’t overdo it as it would seem desperate and the girl would get uncomfortable. If you have not been introduced in office and she is working in a totally different department, then try to go to the coffee machine or canteen around the same time as her. You can start by talking about the taste of the food or the atmosphere in the office.
3. In a club
Hardly would you ever find a girl alone in a club. She would surely have a group of friends, so if you feel intimated by her, you can approach her friend and thus reach out to the said girl. The commonest and easiest way is to request her permission to buy her a drink. You could even compliment her about her attire and then start talking about the music, DJ, etc.
4. At the gym
So many love stories happen in the gym. The gym is a relatively easier place to talk as people make common friends there. You could smile and say hi when you see her daily. You could start off by talking about a wrong technique of exercise she may be doing, the hike in gym fees or compliment her on her weight loss.
5. General places
After the initial ice is broken, it’s easy to get talking after that and eventually ask her out casually. If you happen to chance upon a nice girl in general places like bus stops, stations, theaters, malls, etc, then chances are that you have very less time on your hands to approach her. Throw a smile in her direction, albeit a casual and charming one which doesn’t look creepy. Go up to her, tell her you find her cute and interesting and get chatting about why she is there. See to it that when you approach her, she is alone or with a friend, not elders or a boyfriend.
6. At school or college
It’s easy to chat up with a girl in school or college since you would be seeing her everyday. Try to find out if you have common friends and get introduced through them. If not, then you can try to be near her while waiting for the elevator, in the canteen or nearby bus stop, while waiting for class to start, etc. This way you can talk about the lack of infrastructure, general classes or the college or school festival, upcoming events and such other happenings.
7. At a function or event
It’s common to chance upon a pretty girl at family or friends’ functions, events and parties as ladies generally look their best when they attend special occasions. Ask the host to introduce you to her or compliment her on her looks. There would surely be some common friends, so keep track of whom she is talking to, so that you can easily get in their conversation.
