Have you thought about doing a background check on the girl you are dating or are about to date? Have you noticed anything weird in her behavior which you feel unsure about? Read on to know about a few signs which indicate that she may not be worth dating.
1. Her relationship history is very flippant
You may want to rethink your decision about dating a girl if you find out that she had flippant and meaningless relationships with many other guys in the past. It is not about being judgmental of someone by the number of exes they had, but about getting a sense of their personality traits. If the girl you are dating is careless at sustaining relationships including friendship, she may not be worth dating at all.
2. She has a bad reputation among her friends
Have you spoken to your date’s friends only to find out that they don’t have good things to say about her? This should ring an alarm bell in your head and you should consider it to be a warning sign. If her friends don’t stand by her, there may be something really strange about her behavior or attitude that you may not know straight away.
3. Your bandwidths don’t match
It is absolutely fine to date a girl and then find out that you may be totally incompatible with her. If you feel that her attitude towards life is drastically different than yours, then it may be a sign that she is not worth dating. This may actually save you both a lot of pain and trouble in future.
4. You don’t feel butterflies in your stomach when you meet her
Attraction is one of the factors that can help you determine whether you should be dating a girl or not. If you don’t feel butterflies in your stomach when you see her smile or if you don’t feel like reaching for her hand when she is sitting right across the table, she may not be the girl you would want as a partner.
5. You can’t talk about the things you want to
For every relationship to be successful, it is important that both the partners are emotionally and intellectually compatible to each other. If you simply can’t talk to the girl about the things that matter to you, then it may be pointless to date her and carry forth the relationship. She may not be worth dating if you can’t even speak to her about your favorite things, feelings or habits at the fear of sounding boring or being made fun of.
6. She does not value your friends
Getting along with each others’ friends is one of the unsaid rules of dating. If the girl you are dating does tell you upfront that she is not interested in meeting your friends or that she considers your friends to be not worth her time, it is a definite warning sign. If she tries to manipulate your relationship with your friends while talking to you on your first date, imagine the chaos that could unfurl if you both were to enter into a relationship.
7. She has addiction issues
A girl with addiction issues may be a burden on you emotionally and financially. Whether it is addiction to alcohol, drugs or other forms of intoxications, you risk succumbing to these things by being with her. If you see yourself as someone who has nothing to do with such vices, stay away from a person who is addicted to them.
1. Her relationship history is very flippant
You may want to rethink your decision about dating a girl if you find out that she had flippant and meaningless relationships with many other guys in the past. It is not about being judgmental of someone by the number of exes they had, but about getting a sense of their personality traits. If the girl you are dating is careless at sustaining relationships including friendship, she may not be worth dating at all.
2. She has a bad reputation among her friends
Have you spoken to your date’s friends only to find out that they don’t have good things to say about her? This should ring an alarm bell in your head and you should consider it to be a warning sign. If her friends don’t stand by her, there may be something really strange about her behavior or attitude that you may not know straight away.
3. Your bandwidths don’t match
It is absolutely fine to date a girl and then find out that you may be totally incompatible with her. If you feel that her attitude towards life is drastically different than yours, then it may be a sign that she is not worth dating. This may actually save you both a lot of pain and trouble in future.
4. You don’t feel butterflies in your stomach when you meet her
Attraction is one of the factors that can help you determine whether you should be dating a girl or not. If you don’t feel butterflies in your stomach when you see her smile or if you don’t feel like reaching for her hand when she is sitting right across the table, she may not be the girl you would want as a partner.
5. You can’t talk about the things you want to
For every relationship to be successful, it is important that both the partners are emotionally and intellectually compatible to each other. If you simply can’t talk to the girl about the things that matter to you, then it may be pointless to date her and carry forth the relationship. She may not be worth dating if you can’t even speak to her about your favorite things, feelings or habits at the fear of sounding boring or being made fun of.
6. She does not value your friends
Getting along with each others’ friends is one of the unsaid rules of dating. If the girl you are dating does tell you upfront that she is not interested in meeting your friends or that she considers your friends to be not worth her time, it is a definite warning sign. If she tries to manipulate your relationship with your friends while talking to you on your first date, imagine the chaos that could unfurl if you both were to enter into a relationship.
7. She has addiction issues
A girl with addiction issues may be a burden on you emotionally and financially. Whether it is addiction to alcohol, drugs or other forms of intoxications, you risk succumbing to these things by being with her. If you see yourself as someone who has nothing to do with such vices, stay away from a person who is addicted to them.
