Do you feel like your relationship is going nowhere? If you find yourself questioning the meaning of the relationship you share with your girlfriend, but find it too frivolous to act on your gut feeling or intuition, then check out this list and you will get your answer.
1. You both hardly communicate
Communication is vital in any relationship and if it’s done in negligible amounts, only for formal, basic talks, especially between a couple, it means the relationship is already at the end of its tether. Both parties are not really interested in knowing and sharing what happens in their lives.
2. You both prefer being with friends than each other
Stable couples generally learn to balance time with their friends and each other. However, you like to and prefer hanging out with your buddies numerous times over meeting up your partner after many days. Obviously the romance is dead and all that is left is the formality of maintaining a relationship and meeting up for the heck of it or for physical intimacy, nothing else.
3. Incompatibility has been increasing
Although they say that opposites attract, there has to be a good amount of similarity too for any relationship to work. If yours and your girlfriend’s views regarding things have been different about most things, and you both prefer to do stuff that the other doesn’t, then incompatibility has set in and it’s best to break up.
4. Constant fights
Any couple that doesn’t fight is a fishy one and so is every couple that constantly keeps arguing. If you both end up fighting at least once a day, then probably you both are not compatible with each other, and should split up than make yourself go through torture everyday.
5. You both are avoiding the topic of future
If you both, or either one of you have been avoiding the topic of the future, about commitment in the form of marriage or kids, then it’s time to rethink about your relationship.
6. You both readily go for a better option
From deep within your heart, you know that you will leave your girlfriend for another girl who may be better than her, and are with her only because she’s the best girl in your life currently. You know your girl is also staying with you until she chances upon a better guy. This is not real love, but the fear of being left alone if one doesn’t get anyone better after all. Better to be alone than with the wrong person and give them false hopes.
7. You both are together because of habit and not love
You both are actually in love with the idea of being in a relationship, but not with each other. You both are so used to being with someone, that it now seems hard to break this habit and start from scratch all over again. The feelings are long dead and you care for one another only as friends, but you still do things as a couple since none of you have guts enough to face the reality.
1. You both hardly communicate
Communication is vital in any relationship and if it’s done in negligible amounts, only for formal, basic talks, especially between a couple, it means the relationship is already at the end of its tether. Both parties are not really interested in knowing and sharing what happens in their lives.
2. You both prefer being with friends than each other
Stable couples generally learn to balance time with their friends and each other. However, you like to and prefer hanging out with your buddies numerous times over meeting up your partner after many days. Obviously the romance is dead and all that is left is the formality of maintaining a relationship and meeting up for the heck of it or for physical intimacy, nothing else.
3. Incompatibility has been increasing
Although they say that opposites attract, there has to be a good amount of similarity too for any relationship to work. If yours and your girlfriend’s views regarding things have been different about most things, and you both prefer to do stuff that the other doesn’t, then incompatibility has set in and it’s best to break up.
4. Constant fights
Any couple that doesn’t fight is a fishy one and so is every couple that constantly keeps arguing. If you both end up fighting at least once a day, then probably you both are not compatible with each other, and should split up than make yourself go through torture everyday.
5. You both are avoiding the topic of future
If you both, or either one of you have been avoiding the topic of the future, about commitment in the form of marriage or kids, then it’s time to rethink about your relationship.
6. You both readily go for a better option
From deep within your heart, you know that you will leave your girlfriend for another girl who may be better than her, and are with her only because she’s the best girl in your life currently. You know your girl is also staying with you until she chances upon a better guy. This is not real love, but the fear of being left alone if one doesn’t get anyone better after all. Better to be alone than with the wrong person and give them false hopes.
7. You both are together because of habit and not love
You both are actually in love with the idea of being in a relationship, but not with each other. You both are so used to being with someone, that it now seems hard to break this habit and start from scratch all over again. The feelings are long dead and you care for one another only as friends, but you still do things as a couple since none of you have guts enough to face the reality.
