Crushes are nothing but little fantasies people create in their heads when they are infatuated by someone. They make life interesting and it feels like we are living a movie. However, it’s difficult to get over a lovely girl whom you have a crush on for various reasons. She may be having a boyfriend, you may not have enough courage to confess, you may not want to ruin the friendship, etc. Whatever the reason is, here are ways to get over your crush once and for all.
1. Distance yourself
The first step after rejection is to distance yourself from her as much as possible, at least until you feel you are over her. Change your schedule or timings so that you avoid running into her or seeing her. Don’t talk much to her and eventually time and distance will heal your broken heart.
2. Think of something else
If your crush is already taken, or is not that into you, or not ready for a relationship, then you ought to divert your mind from her. Spend more time in the gym, working on bettering yourself physically as well as mentally, and by also concentrating on work or studies. Every time her thought pops up in your mind, think about something else altogether.
3. Profess
Heartbreak becomes easier to deal with when you know you have tried but failed. The more you keep it inside you, the more pain you will feel. You have nothing to lose by letting her know about your feelings. She might just say yes, and you would then feel like a moron to not have professed all this time.
4. Look for another love interest
As they say, the sorrow that one girl gives can only be eliminated by the happiness that another one provides. Look out for another love interest. Divert your mind from that one girl and see the positive qualities of other girls around you too. You never know when any of them will become your next girlfriend.
5. Think about her cons
Of course she was elevated to a high position in your mind. Even though you knew of her faults, you chose to overlook them. Now is the time to think of her as just any other person who has flaws too, and how she wasn’t right for you in so many ways. The more you think about how wrong she was for you, the more at peace you will be with her not being your girlfriend.
6. Share with friends
Sharing sorrows always makes one feel lighter. Talk to your friends about how your aim to get together with your crush didn’t get fulfilled and pour your heart out. When they tell you about similar stories of one sided feelings and how they were left heartbroken too, you would cope in a better manner.
1. Distance yourself
The first step after rejection is to distance yourself from her as much as possible, at least until you feel you are over her. Change your schedule or timings so that you avoid running into her or seeing her. Don’t talk much to her and eventually time and distance will heal your broken heart.
2. Think of something else
If your crush is already taken, or is not that into you, or not ready for a relationship, then you ought to divert your mind from her. Spend more time in the gym, working on bettering yourself physically as well as mentally, and by also concentrating on work or studies. Every time her thought pops up in your mind, think about something else altogether.
3. Profess
Heartbreak becomes easier to deal with when you know you have tried but failed. The more you keep it inside you, the more pain you will feel. You have nothing to lose by letting her know about your feelings. She might just say yes, and you would then feel like a moron to not have professed all this time.
4. Look for another love interest
As they say, the sorrow that one girl gives can only be eliminated by the happiness that another one provides. Look out for another love interest. Divert your mind from that one girl and see the positive qualities of other girls around you too. You never know when any of them will become your next girlfriend.
5. Think about her cons
Of course she was elevated to a high position in your mind. Even though you knew of her faults, you chose to overlook them. Now is the time to think of her as just any other person who has flaws too, and how she wasn’t right for you in so many ways. The more you think about how wrong she was for you, the more at peace you will be with her not being your girlfriend.
6. Share with friends
Sharing sorrows always makes one feel lighter. Talk to your friends about how your aim to get together with your crush didn’t get fulfilled and pour your heart out. When they tell you about similar stories of one sided feelings and how they were left heartbroken too, you would cope in a better manner.
