Relationships are complicated and fraught with many problems. One of them is when your partner starts taking you for granted. Here are 8 signs to make you aware of whether your girlfriend is neglecting you or not.
1. She doesn’t reply regularly to calls and texts
If you feel that almost always you are the one who initiates plans to meet, calls her and texts her and she hardly ever does so, then she is not caring enough for you. Also, not replying to your texts on time and calling back to your missed calls often is a bad sign.
2. She makes plans with you without asking if you are free
Most of your outings with her have been planned by her as she decides when and where to meet according to her schedule. She doesn’t even bother to ask if your schedule permits you to give her time and just assumes that you would always be free for her.
3. She has stopped thanking you
Earlier she would thank you and in fact even reward you in her own sweet ways for your helping gestures. Nowadays, pulling a chair for her, paying for dinner, helping her out with problems and such other things are not met with gratitude.
4. She keeps you as one of her options and not priority
You feel you are an option for her and not a priority like she is to you. She doesn’t make time for you and seems to prefer doing her own thing, alone or in the company of her friends, rather than being with you.
5. She doesn’t listen to you but gets influenced by others
Your girlfriend has surely started taking you for granted when she ignores your suggestions and advices but gladly listens to those given by others and even implements them. As her boyfriend, you should be her priority, but you do not feel you are important enough for her.
6. She gets annoyed with you for small things
If your girlfriend is the touchy and short tempered type who gets irritated over small things, it’s something that you signed up for. However, if she gets annoyed over little things you do but remains calm when others do the very same things, then obviously she is using you to remove her frustration and is too comfortable knowing the fact that you will listen to her without any protest.
7. She is somehow always busy
She seems to want to spend as less time as possible with you. Whenever you call her or ask to meet, she is somehow always busy. However, she is not that busy for her friends and family whom she meets regularly. If she has a problem or needs a shoulder to cry on, only then does she seem to remember your presence in her life.
8. She makes you feel incomplete, hollow and devalued
People in loving relationships shouldn’t feel devalued and incomplete. If you are feeling so, then it is a sign of your girlfriend not being dependable enough to be there for you when you need her.
1. She doesn’t reply regularly to calls and texts
If you feel that almost always you are the one who initiates plans to meet, calls her and texts her and she hardly ever does so, then she is not caring enough for you. Also, not replying to your texts on time and calling back to your missed calls often is a bad sign.
2. She makes plans with you without asking if you are free
Most of your outings with her have been planned by her as she decides when and where to meet according to her schedule. She doesn’t even bother to ask if your schedule permits you to give her time and just assumes that you would always be free for her.
3. She has stopped thanking you
Earlier she would thank you and in fact even reward you in her own sweet ways for your helping gestures. Nowadays, pulling a chair for her, paying for dinner, helping her out with problems and such other things are not met with gratitude.
4. She keeps you as one of her options and not priority
You feel you are an option for her and not a priority like she is to you. She doesn’t make time for you and seems to prefer doing her own thing, alone or in the company of her friends, rather than being with you.
5. She doesn’t listen to you but gets influenced by others
Your girlfriend has surely started taking you for granted when she ignores your suggestions and advices but gladly listens to those given by others and even implements them. As her boyfriend, you should be her priority, but you do not feel you are important enough for her.
6. She gets annoyed with you for small things
If your girlfriend is the touchy and short tempered type who gets irritated over small things, it’s something that you signed up for. However, if she gets annoyed over little things you do but remains calm when others do the very same things, then obviously she is using you to remove her frustration and is too comfortable knowing the fact that you will listen to her without any protest.
7. She is somehow always busy
She seems to want to spend as less time as possible with you. Whenever you call her or ask to meet, she is somehow always busy. However, she is not that busy for her friends and family whom she meets regularly. If she has a problem or needs a shoulder to cry on, only then does she seem to remember your presence in her life.
8. She makes you feel incomplete, hollow and devalued
People in loving relationships shouldn’t feel devalued and incomplete. If you are feeling so, then it is a sign of your girlfriend not being dependable enough to be there for you when you need her.
