Are you in a stifling relationship? Doing things against your wishes? Perhaps you are with an insecure girlfriend. You always have to prove yourself and answer questions. If your girlfriend is displaying these qualities, you need to do some serious talking. Here are 5 tips to spot an insecure girlfriend.
1. She has unnecessary and frequent doubts
If your girlfriend is having trust issues and she asks too many questions, tends to inquire a lot more than usual then it clearly shows she is insecure. She may ask questions like “Where were you?” or “Why does it take so long to get from one place to the other?” It seems more like an interrogation than being in a relationship.
2. She displays hyperactive behavior
Getting hyper about things like not answering her call on time is a sign of insecurity. Losing patience and getting upset without any reason and not accepting valid reasons shows that your girlfriend is insecure. Try to identify the problem and deal with it.
3. She insists on checking your phone and social networking accounts
If your girlfriend feels the need to go through your phone all the time or check your Facebook and Twitter, she’s certainly insecure. She worries that other women might be interested in you or worse, that you might be interested in them.
4. She hinders your growth
A nice girlfriend would be delighted if you were going places in your work or academics. But an insecure girlfriend worries that you will ditch her, get drunk in some bar and end up sleeping with another woman in Europe! She will be least concerned about what it means to you and more invested in keeping you tied to her.
5. There is a ‘no female friends’ rule
If she is your girlfriend then you are not allowed to have any female friends. Even if you do, it comes with a whole lot of disclaimers and restrictions – you cannot take her for a drive, kiss her, hug her or even plan a holiday with a group of friends if it includes girls.
6. You have a bland social life
You are compelled to not have anyone in your social life because your world needs to revolve around her or its going to upset her. As a result, all your meals happen together, you go out together and you don’t hang out much with common friends. If you do go out somewhere, your girlfriend always wants to tag along. It shows that she is deeply insecure when it comes to you.
1. She has unnecessary and frequent doubts
If your girlfriend is having trust issues and she asks too many questions, tends to inquire a lot more than usual then it clearly shows she is insecure. She may ask questions like “Where were you?” or “Why does it take so long to get from one place to the other?” It seems more like an interrogation than being in a relationship.
2. She displays hyperactive behavior
Getting hyper about things like not answering her call on time is a sign of insecurity. Losing patience and getting upset without any reason and not accepting valid reasons shows that your girlfriend is insecure. Try to identify the problem and deal with it.
3. She insists on checking your phone and social networking accounts
If your girlfriend feels the need to go through your phone all the time or check your Facebook and Twitter, she’s certainly insecure. She worries that other women might be interested in you or worse, that you might be interested in them.
4. She hinders your growth
A nice girlfriend would be delighted if you were going places in your work or academics. But an insecure girlfriend worries that you will ditch her, get drunk in some bar and end up sleeping with another woman in Europe! She will be least concerned about what it means to you and more invested in keeping you tied to her.
5. There is a ‘no female friends’ rule
If she is your girlfriend then you are not allowed to have any female friends. Even if you do, it comes with a whole lot of disclaimers and restrictions – you cannot take her for a drive, kiss her, hug her or even plan a holiday with a group of friends if it includes girls.
6. You have a bland social life
You are compelled to not have anyone in your social life because your world needs to revolve around her or its going to upset her. As a result, all your meals happen together, you go out together and you don’t hang out much with common friends. If you do go out somewhere, your girlfriend always wants to tag along. It shows that she is deeply insecure when it comes to you.
