When women visualize their date, they want someone who is strong, confident and has a charismatic persona. The first impression of a man can make or mar what a woman thinks about him and this might make her pass a very strong judgment.
Nervousness is very natural during a date but signs of nervousness should not be projected to give wrong body language signals. If you want your date to be perfect, here are seven body language mistakes that you should avoid.
1. Sitting with arms crossed
The crossing of arms shows that you are too insecure, you find it very difficult to let go and it is going to be very difficult for the opposite person to become comfortable with you and initiate a conversation.
2. Putting your hands in the pocket
Putting your hands in the pocket usually gives a negative impression. In this position, your thumbs are pointing towards your crotch. This suggests that you are basically very shy but you are trying to put on a cool dude appearance to make yourself feel more wanted. Beware! She will smell desperation.
3. Smiling and laughing your guts out
There is no doubt that women love men with a good sense of humor but too much laughing and smiling shows that you are not serious with many important things and you shy away from troubling situations. If someone means business, you will laugh it off and rush it away. It will show that you are trying too hard to impress by appearing to be very funny and hilarious.
4. Giving a piercing stare
In order to look more focused and attentive, you avoid revolving your eyes around and end up looking at the wrong places. If you are caught off guard, it will be a very embarrassing moment for you.
5. Holding your fist too tight
Women tend to run away from dominating, patriarchal and chauvinistic men. These kinds of men appear to be very short tempered and insecure. Men with such rigid hand positions may be rejected in the first look. So if you are going on a date, be careful so as to avoid pumping your fist.
1. Sitting with arms crossed
The crossing of arms shows that you are too insecure, you find it very difficult to let go and it is going to be very difficult for the opposite person to become comfortable with you and initiate a conversation.
2. Putting your hands in the pocket
Putting your hands in the pocket usually gives a negative impression. In this position, your thumbs are pointing towards your crotch. This suggests that you are basically very shy but you are trying to put on a cool dude appearance to make yourself feel more wanted. Beware! She will smell desperation.
3. Smiling and laughing your guts out
There is no doubt that women love men with a good sense of humor but too much laughing and smiling shows that you are not serious with many important things and you shy away from troubling situations. If someone means business, you will laugh it off and rush it away. It will show that you are trying too hard to impress by appearing to be very funny and hilarious.
4. Giving a piercing stare
In order to look more focused and attentive, you avoid revolving your eyes around and end up looking at the wrong places. If you are caught off guard, it will be a very embarrassing moment for you.
5. Holding your fist too tight
Women tend to run away from dominating, patriarchal and chauvinistic men. These kinds of men appear to be very short tempered and insecure. Men with such rigid hand positions may be rejected in the first look. So if you are going on a date, be careful so as to avoid pumping your fist.
