Wednesday, February 6, 2013

How To Change Your Mate ??!!

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If you and your partner both have personal passions that you are nurturing for each other, how can the rest of your world together not be elevated? The goal is to be able to luxuriate in each other.

What if I had the secret recipe that would change your mate? What if I gave you a mystical potion that could create your ultimate human match…That perfect soul connection?  Read on to find out more about this magical elixir.

Okay, so the truth of the matter is…there is no hocus pocus that will change the person that you have chosen to be with in life. You chose ‘em, you got ‘em. Much like the break and buy policy at most fine china shops! Of course, you could duck and run from the relationship. You could imagine that the grass is greener on the other side, and go to investigate. You could consider your bond with this person as just another disposable object in this highly disposable society. Or…

You could create the love life you desire by doing one thing. You find your own life purpose. Your reason for being…the thing that makes you know with every ounce of you that this is why you were put here on earth. This is one sure fire way of finding out if our mates can change. You see, when you ignite your life and nourish your own soul, you change. You will soon find out if your mate takes the cue from you, when they allow themselves to find that certain passion that will keep their souls happy. This will allow you to stay in love and nuzzling noses when you are ninety years old. If they don’t change, you also learn something. It is then up to you to do what you must. And, all circumstances considered, maybe that means moving out and moving on to a fulfilling, exciting and exuberant life. The hard fact is, they do not deserve to keep you hostage in a life that is less than. You deserve an amazing life!

Everybody feels passionate about something. Sometimes it takes a while to figure out exactly what that is, but I know you have big dreams inside of you that are driven by your deepest values and convictions. Discovering this passion will dramatically increase your sense of joy, happiness, and confidence in every area of your life, most especially your love life. If you and your partner both have personal passions that you are nurturing for each other, how can the rest of your world together not be elevated? The goal is to be able to luxuriate in each other. To understand that together you are tending to each other’s spirit.

The most popular advice for career success is to find something you love, and then find a way to make money doing it. If you can find a way to support yourself working in a field you enjoy, you'll get up every morning looking forward to doing something that hardly feels like work at all. I can tell you that this is one of the single most difficult tasks I have ever undertaken. Most of the time, we are stuck in a position that's less than ideal. However, it may not even be your J.O.B. that you need to change to find passion. It takes an aerial view of your life overall to be able to pinpoint where your passion may be hidden. It may be something that you will never discover unless you let yourself explore. If you explore the values and dreams within yourself and match them to particular aspects of your work, the daily grind can quickly transform into a daily pleasure. By finding deep meaning in what you do, your enthusiasm for work will naturally increase. Your excitement for everything will become fuller.

When you find your passion, you can seek out others who share that passion and revel in it. You can open yourself up to a whole new circle of people and experiences. This is also a fantastic way to learn about how you deal with different types of personalities. Engage in situations and experiences that only suit your vision. When a group of people who share the same passion get together and talk about it, massive creativity always ensues. Whether it's a brain storming debate or a completely creative session, it's always good fuel for your soul.

Even when you're spending time with people who have totally different interests, you can exchange ideas on a whole new level and enjoy the company more when you have more to share. Discovering the passion inside of you makes you a more interesting person. 
Your friends, family, and colleagues may feed off your interest and enthusiasm. Your passion will become contagious, and you may even convince them to examine their own passion. With this in common, you'll experience a deeper relationship and more meaningful fellowship as you share your passion with others.

Are You Easily Bored Or Anxious?
The quickest antidote is to discover what makes you tick.

Your passion is the fuel that ignites the joy you were created to experience. Infusing your passion into your weekly schedule, even in small amounts, can have a dramatic effect on the happiness you feel throughout the rest of the week.

Romance Increases
Knowing what your passion is can give you a barometer for potential romantic partners. If you find someone who shares your passion, or is at least supportive of it, you can develop a deep and loving relationship. You can begin to fully explore your relationship should you be lucky enough to have a partner that authentically shares your passion. This is one way your fire can be fanned as you begin making new memories together and reliving the excitement.

Get Started Today!
Experience the power of finding your passion today. All it takes is a few minutes of quiet time alone, an open mind, and a determination to live the life of JOY that you were born to live.

You know what it is…most likely it was something that you loved to do as a child. It may be something that you feel has passed you by. Maybe you think you are too old, or too fat and that your couch is just too comfy. You will never know what your passion is unless you grab a piece of paper and a pen, and ask yourself some questions. What stirs your emotions? What do you wish you had time for? What bothers you about the world around you? How can you make it better? What things make you smile? What do you enjoy? How do you want to create your life?

As you explore, you'll discover the passion that burns deep within your heart. Ask yourself how you can pursue that passion, starting today, even if it's only on a small scale. Your life will never be the same.

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