Women love dating men who are confident and real. They want to feel like you need them... but only if you already have your own life, your own ambitions, and your own goals. The moment a man becomes too clingy in a relationship, a woman will run for the hills. Women are not attracted to the type of man who needs too much support, validation, and constant reinforcement.
Remember you are trying to attract women, not turn them off. Below are 5 signs that you are being needy, so if you suffer from any of these signs of neediness, you need to stop those actions immediately.
1. You call, email, and text too much
You start calling and texting a woman you just began dating several times a day. You are over-texting her. You don’t need to be checking in every two hours. If you want to run a woman off quickly, this is one of the best ways to do it.
2. You are overly-emotional
You share all of your feelings with women right away, you always doubt yourself and you need constant reassurance about your relationship, work and friendships. Most women look for a strong partner they can lean on. So if you are always leaning on her, she might doubt your ability to do this. Remember, women want a man who is confident and independent--not insecure and dependent.
3. You are always available
You are too available. Women don’t want men who are always available because it makes them think that you don't have a life of your own, making you far less desirable. Being a challenge to women makes you more desirable. When you meet a woman you like, show interest in her, but ensure that you keep your regular schedule and don't be available every single day.
4. You do whatever she wants
You let a woman walk all over you and then continue to be a doormat and allow it over and over, giving up things you really value in an effort to align your life with her wishes. Women are not looking for a man who agrees with everything they say. They are looking for confident men someone who can stimulate their minds and not bore them.
5. You need constant reassurance
You constantly need to hear how great you are and you constantly need a woman to stroke your ego. This is a sign that you have low-self esteem and a poor self-image of himself. This behavior can become tiresome to most women because they don't want to deal with a guy that needs constant assurance.