When you see a beautiful girl who makes your heart go pitter-pat what do you do with you eyes? If you are like most guys you feel conflicted. Part of you just wants to stare upon her beauty and admire all of her cute and sexy bits. But, unfortunately there is another side of you that tries to make you look away.
There are a few reasons you might look away from an attractive woman:
A. You don’t want to “get caught” because you are afraid that it would be awkward and you don’t want her to judge you or think that you are some creepy, horny guy.
B. You want to “be polite” and you think that it is rude to stare at hot chicks.
C. You want to put off interacting with her so that you can “plan something smooth” that you can say to her. Even though deep down you know that the longer that you wait the harder it will be for you to approach her.
These are all very common concerns and I genuinely used to worry about each of these.
Use those eyes
However, years back I came to the realization that you are always better off to look at hot girls and not try to hide the fact that you like what you see. When you start giving yourself permission to shamelessly look at attractive women you’ll notice that a good percentage of women will look back at you and smile. It’s as if they are saying “what’ve you got buddy? Are you gonna come over here and spit some game or what?”
This can be an open invitation to a new life that is full of abundance and sheet soaking sex…
Or, it can be something scary, because you know that your game is weak and that if you did step to her it would go downhill fast. So the key is to look at her, and also know in your heart that if she gives you the green light (the smile and come-hither look) that you will be able to deliver.
This kind of confidence doesn’t come over night, but it is something that you can develop quickly with the proper effort.
One thing to remember is that you really don’t need to say much to create attraction. If you can look a girl in the eye and convey a high enough level of sexual confidence you can whip her into such a tizzy that she won’t really give a crap about the words that you are saying to her.
So next time you see a woman you feel powerfully attracted to, try looking her in the eye and imagine her pulling her blouse up over her head and shaking her hair around like a Pantene commercial. You’ll naturally get a sly bad-boy smile on your face that will convey all the right things to her. This is important, because if you look at her with a dead-pan expressionless face you will creep her out, so remember to think sexy thoughts and emote.
I can’t tell you how many times I’ve done this, said about ten words and then just started making out with a girl at a party or club. Literally the conversation goes like this:
Girl: Hey yourself
Jake: I saw you looking at me…
Girl: Oh yeah?
Then you pull her in towards you…
This may sound like some sort of fantasy if you aren’t used to having these sorts of experiences with women, but with the proper attitude and a little practice this can be your new reality.