Saturday, August 4, 2012

Jedi Mind Tricks For Picking Up Girls

Jedi Mind Tricks For Picking Up Girls
Today I have a quick article for you with one of my “Jedi Mind Tricks” for picking up chicks.

Specifically I’m going to teach you a weird trick that is going to make women feel like they have a great emotional connection with you, even if you’ve just met them.

Creating an emotional connection is one of the most important things you can do when it comes to meeting, attracting and seducing beautiful women. In fact a lack of a sense of emotional connection is one of the biggest causes of phone flaking and last minute resistance.

So you’re going to want to pay extra close attention to this article if you have problems with flaking or getting physical with the women you desire.

This idea was actually borne out of desperation when I was specifically working on Breakthrough Comfort, my 7 step process for getting any woman to fall in love with you in two weeks or less. I was on a date with a girl I had nothing in common with (though she was hot) and I decided to see what I could get away with, but it’s actually pretty good.

Use the force

And that’s the idea of talking about your connection. This is one of those Jedi mind trick because whether or not you have a connection with a woman, if you tell her you feel like you have a connection she’s almost always going to agree.

Then thanks to the amazing psychological power of commitment and consistency (I’ll explain this more later, but basically what people agree with they stay consistent with). The woman will actually begin to rationalize that the two of you have a connection. All simply because you told her you did.

I noticed that if you just told the girl you had the connection, if you say something like:

“I usually don’t tell people this but for some reason I really felt this cool connection with you when we started talking.”


“For some reason I feel really strangely comfortable with you. Like there’s some kind of weird connection between us.”


“You know, I just feel a connection between us. Like I feel like there’s some sort of connection here, don’t you think?”

Sometimes I’ll use the term “clicking” instead of the word connecting, so for example I’d say something like:

“It’s really rare that I click with someone right away like this. You know usually I meet girls and they’re really pretty or interesting but for whatever reason I don’t feel like there’s really that moment where we clicked and I really felt like this was someone I could get to know better.”

The girls would actually start to act like we had a connection. It sounds amazing, but just saying that and getting the girl to agree is really powerful because of the idea of consistent commitment and consistency, so even if the girl doesn’t feel like you have an emotional connection, if you say it a couple times and she agrees to it, every time she agrees she’s going to feel more and more like, yeah, we do have an emotional connection.

And so two or three times, you don’t need to do that a lot. Like two or three times over like an hour and a half is more than enough to really bolster that connection.

Now keep in mind that this trick is only to be used in comfort once the girl is already attracted to you. If you start to bust this out too early you’re going to sound super needy like a certain pick up guru who told me he loved me like a brother after knowing me for a week. But if you use this crazy little trick at the right time the results will be awesome!

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