Compatibility can sometimes be found in the oddest places. And these 11 signs show you that you’re so compatible already, it’s almost really cheesy! By Geninna Ariton
MFEO. Made for each other.
Some couples are just over the moon and smitten, with spring fever
written all over their faces. You see them strolling in parks or malls
hand in hand, with their dreamy eyes every time they look at each other.
You see these couples giving hugs and blowing kisses to each other
every five minutes. Not only do they look like they are made for each
other, but they give off that feeling of endless love, the embodiment of
the word soulmates. But how about you? How do you know that you and
your partner are also MFEO?
It may be truly corny, but there are signs that easily say MFEO
You may just be oblivious to it, but here are the signs that you and your partner are a match made in heaven.
#1 Déjà vu. Have you ever had the feeling that you
have been in a place before? But you swear that you have never been
there? How about déjà vu in talking to people? Have you ever had that
feeling like you have known someone your whole life but you have just
met them?
This feeling is usually experienced by couples who are made for each
other. Try to recall the first time you have approached your partner,
the first time you have had that long conversation and you just could
not stop talking to each other. If you felt like you are talking to
someone that you have known all your life and not someone you just met,
then chances are this relationship could lead to something stronger.
#2 Dreamy, steamy eyes. You have been hearing it in
movies, especially in romantic comedies, and you have heard friends tell
you this, “The way you look at each other…” There is something about
made for each other couples and the way they stare into their lover’s
eyes.
You will never see them replicate the same look toward anyone else.
It’s as if they have that dreamy, but not empty, stare. Like they cannot
get enough. Like there is no tomorrow. That’s one sign that you cannot
deny your feelings toward your significant other.
#3 Stealing kisses, whispering sweet nothings, the little things.
If you and your partner have been together for years and you still
steal kisses from each other, hug each other randomly, and whisper sweet
nothings to each other, then you must not let each other go.
It’s the thoughtfulness that makes the gesture special. Sometimes,
people take the presence of other people for granted, especially if they
are used to being around each other all the time. But with couples who
are made for each other, every little gesture from sticking a post-it
note on the fridge to handing them the PlayStation controller is a
memory to be treasured.
#4 The story of us. Do you notice how you and your
partner react whenever friends or random people ask how you have met or
how your love story goes? There is nothing sweeter than retelling how
the two of you fell in love, and the way you deliver this story says a
lot about you, your partner, and your relationship with them.
#5 Because it’s true, you do finish each other’s sentences.
It might sound like this expression has been used so many times to
denote how you and your significant other behave, but it is one truly
corny sign that you are made for each other. Finishing each other’s
sentences does not only equate to knowing each other that well, it also
says that your partner is confident enough to voice out loud that they
know your preferences.
You know what’s even cornier than this? It’s when one of you is about
to ask a question and the other already blurts out the answer before
the question is finished!
#6 The photographic tendency. Not all of us possess a
photographic memory, and yet, when we are irrevocably in love with
someone, we tend to remember every single detail. You will notice if
they said an expression that they have never used before, or when they
start to change the way they say and react to things. It might be corny,
but you remember what they wore on a particular event that you guys
went to or what you did that one Saturday night, even if it happened
years ago.
#7 Arguments are normal, and so are disagreements.
There is a certain kind of relationship wherein you can say that you
hate your partner so much and yet you still love them without the
feeling of resentment or wanting to break up. It is in knowing that
disagreements are nothing out of the ordinary and in believing that
these are challenges that will nurture the relationship, and not drive
you away.
#8 You want to go to the beach and your significant other tends to hide from the sun.
Some of the best relationships are the ones where they do not force
each other to like what they don’t. One sign that the one you are dating
is a keeper and that you are a match made in heaven is that they do not
impose. Just because your partner loves cooking, it does not mean you
should be taking cooking lessons tomorrow.
It does help the relationship if you show interest and give opinions,
but it does not make sense to involve yourself in things that you do
not like. If your partner respects this and is happy with it, then it’s
surely a sign and you might want to consider keeping the relationship in
the long run.
#9 Butterfies in the stomach, stay in the stomach.
They say that when you have been in a relationship for a long time, the
excitement and the sparks die down. If your significant other still
gives you butterflies in the stomach whenever you see them or do special
things with them, then you must just have found someone that is really
meant for you.
#10 Safe and sound. Feeling safe at all times should
not be taken for granted. According to Maslow’s hierarchy of needs, you
do not reach the stage of being loved and the feeling of belongingness
without having experienced safety and security first. Being with your
lover should never make you feel any doubt, not about the relationship
or if there will be a shooter with a gun in front of you, you must be
certain that they will take the bullet for you instead. If that does not
spell out made for each other, what else will?
#11 Five years from now… The coveted future. The
infamous question of where you both see yourselves in five years or ten
years or even fifty years. If your partner has already laid down the
road map for you and definitely sees a future with you in it, then there
is no doubt that this truly corny sign says that you guys are made for
each other, totally!
These signs may or may not be apparent at first. But once you
see and feel them, you know that the relationship you have isn’t just
the run of the mill type. You might consider being exclusive and stay in
it for as long as possible, after all, you know now that you are both
truly and irrevocably made for each other.
