Whether you’re looking to woo a girl or tell a guy you miss him, adding some music to the mix will definitely help you get your point across.
One of the greatest romantic gestures is to dedicate a song to that
person you admire. If you find yourself hesitant to express your
feelings in the usual manner, why not start by courting with music?
Dedicating a song will help you indirectly convey the things you want to
say.
Just as love has many forms, the music industry has provided us with a
whole repertoire of love songs, whose existence spans the entirety of
popular music. Think about it: almost 80 percent of the songs written by
music artists was about, or inspired by lovey-mushy feels. There are
songs for just about anything. From puppy love, secret admiration,
unrequited love, falling out of love, cheating, you name it.
To further prove the point, romantic movies will not be as enjoyable
without it’s love song tie-in. Pretty Woman has “It Must Have Been
Love,” The Wedding Singer with “Grow Old With You,” City of Angels
with “Iris,” and 500 Days of Summer with “Sweet Disposition” to name a
few.
How to get your crush to hear the song
Ideally, I’d suggest you write your own. But let’s admit it, not
everyone is gifted with the eloquence to string a stanza that would go
nicely with a guitar. Wait, do you even play the guitar? Well, if not,
you have all the bunch of smitten, hopeful, and heartbroken music
artists to thank for that ready-made love message to post on your
crush’s Facebook wall.
Just don’t overdo it. You don’t want to give your crush the wrong
idea. Sting’s “Every Breath You Take” is far from romantic. It screams
stalker. And Marvin Gaye’s “Let’s Get it On” is not a good idea, if you
haven’t even introduced yourself to the object of your desires, let
alone if you’re not that close.
It would help if you’re really into music and listen to a wide range
of genres. Sit down, and think of all the songs that inspired the
romantic in you. Now, consider the other person. Do they appreciate a
wide range of music as well? What are their likes and dislikes? If it’s
new and unheard of, the better. You can impress them with your profound
choice in music. That’s two birds with one stone. Now on to what you
need to do!
#1 Post the song link to their Facebook page. This
style is lazy, but effective and subtle. This is for people who spend a
lot of time online. We all did this at one point anyway.
#2 Make them a mix CD. If you’ve watched Nick and
Norah’s Infinite Playlist, the protagonist, Nick incessantly makes mix
CDs for his ex-girlfriend, which she just throws away. The mix CDs were
in turn picked up by the girl’s friend, Norah, which led to a series of
events that brought them together.
This takes some effort though, but you’re free to place a number of
songs according to your choice and the message you want to convey. Slip
it into your crush’s desk at work, in their locker, drop it at the
doorstep or ask a courier to bring it to them.
#3 If you find yourselves alone or hanging out, play
it in a jukebox, request for the in-house band to play it, or play the
song in your car stereo. This could be cheesy, but it’s effective.
Playing a song that you both are familiar with or just something you
want to make your partner listen to could be a great conversation
starter.
#4 Make a cover and record a video of yourself performing the song. If you think you have what it takes, go out there and woo your crush with your awesome talent!
What songs to pick out for your crush
If you have absolutely no idea what songs to pick, here are a couple
of great suggestions that would entice anyone with considerably good
taste in music.
#1 Lovesong by The Cure
Album: Disintegration (1989)
For: Starting a connection, the indirect shot in the air to tell that someone about the connection they make with you.
Album: Disintegration (1989)
For: Starting a connection, the indirect shot in the air to tell that someone about the connection they make with you.
Memorable line: Whenever I’m alone with you, you make me feel like I’m home again
The lyrics are pretty straightforward with eight lines repeated over
the course of the song. Lovesong is written in a way that’s typical of
the band’s post-romantic, new wave style, which tells its audience that
guys can be sensitive creatures too.
The song basically narrates the singer’s feelings towards an unnamed
lover, and how that person makes him feel. This is the song of choice if
you want to give the person you admire subtle cues about your feelings.
For a more sexy refreshing rhythm, try listening to the cover version
by American reggae band 311, which was recorded for the romantic comedy
film 50 First Dates.
#2 With or Without You by U2
Album: The Joshua Tree (1987)
For: Listening after a heated argument or fight, or to help you soldier on through a rough patch.
Album: The Joshua Tree (1987)
For: Listening after a heated argument or fight, or to help you soldier on through a rough patch.
Memorable line: My hands are tied, my body bruised, she got me with nothing to win and nothing left to lose
This is probably one of U2’s most popular songs, as well as their
most covered by different artists. “With or Without You” is the perfect
example of U2’s distinct studio craft: Edge’s effects-heavy riffs with
Bono’s grandiose songwriting and high-note, emotive drawl.
The song was originally inspired by the personal exposure experienced
by U2 front man Bono and about the real issues experienced in a
relationship. The message is somehow ambivalent, as told by the line “I
can live, with or without you.” This is a good song to dedicate to an
estranged partner who’s taking you for granted.
#3 Digital Love by Daft Punk
Album: Discovery (2001)
For: A cute way to tell someone how good you make each other feel, a cheesy song to escape that crowded club while leading the one you like by the hand.
Album: Discovery (2001)
For: A cute way to tell someone how good you make each other feel, a cheesy song to escape that crowded club while leading the one you like by the hand.
Memorable line: The time is right to put my arms around you, you’re feeling right, you wrap your arms around too
The masked robotic duo rarely grace their fans with
straight-from-the-heart romantic songs, but a select few like this song
proves its worth. “Digital Love” is a song that portrays the pursuit of
love and its innocence that hooks two people in the moment of feeling.
The tender lyrics paired with the hypnotic loop of electronic sounds
makes it the perfect song to dedicate to a crush or a longtime friend
that you’re beginning to fall for. The dream sequence from the music
video also adds to the song’s romantic charm.
#4 Everlong by Foo Fighters
Album: The Colour and the Shape (1997)
For: An overt way to confess the feelings you’ve been keeping for-everlong.
Album: The Colour and the Shape (1997)
For: An overt way to confess the feelings you’ve been keeping for-everlong.
Memorable line: Hello, I’ve waited here for you, everlong
Of course, this song makes it to our list. One of Foo Fighter’s best
and most requested in every concert. Even the acoustic version is just
as enchanting, that you see hundreds of covers on YouTube. The song was
written by Foo Fighters front man Dave Grohl after the breakup of his
first marriage to photographer Jennifer Youngblood.
Heartbroken, homeless, and the band on the verge of a breaking up as
well, Grohl was inspired to write the song after falling for a new
woman. The song is about the deep connection he made with the girl. The
singer-instrumentalist relates: “It was basically about being connected
to someone so much, that not only do you love them physically and
spiritually, but when you sing along with them, you harmonize
perfectly.”
#5 Stand Inside Your Love by The Smashing Pumpkins
Album: Machina/The Machines of God (2000)
For: Pure admiration and surrender to the point of obsession.
Album: Machina/The Machines of God (2000)
For: Pure admiration and surrender to the point of obsession.
Memorable line: Who wouldn’t be the one you love? Who wouldn’t stand inside your love?
“Stand Inside Your Love” is considered a Pumpkin classic. The song
includes Billy Corgan’s distinct verbose lyrics, themed with nostalgia,
rites of passage, and the relationships formed in between, all meshed in
the band’s layered, operatic sound. The song describes the exaltation
the singer gives to the dedicated person, that they are destined and
bound to be together in every way.
#6 My Heart Sings by 311
Album: Uplifter (2009)
For: Reminiscing the awesome moments with your special someone.
Album: Uplifter (2009)
For: Reminiscing the awesome moments with your special someone.
Memorable line: I’m not made of stone, I’m only flesh and bone. I’m
half crazy, and amazed that you are alone. Let’s sit on the shore and
watch the ocean breathe. It’s getting dark and we both don’t want to
leave.
This song’s slow-paced reggae sound evokes the imagery of hanging out
in a beach bar at nightfall. “My Heart Sings” is as direct as it is
sweet. Perfect song to break the awkward silence, if you and your
special someone find yourselves alone.
#7 Sometimes by Nine Days
Album: The Madding Crowd (2000)
For: Winning someone back.
Album: The Madding Crowd (2000)
For: Winning someone back.
Memorable line: I’ve let you down, you’ve lost your taste, I’m losing ground, I miss your face
This mellow hit is also from the band that wrote “(Absolutely) Story
of a Girl.” The music is typical of the late nineties’ alternative-pop
genre, which is mostly about coming of age, relationships, breakups, and
the like.
This song takes a slower pace from its contemporaries and upon
listening, you just might imagine playing this song on a prom night.
“Sometimes” is a good song to dedicate if you want to make amends with
your special someone.
#8 Echo by Incubus
Album: Morning View (2001)
For: Those intimate moments.
Album: Morning View (2001)
For: Those intimate moments.
Memorable line: There’s something about the way you move. I see your
mouth in slow motion when you sing. Like suddenly something someone
contrives. Your movements echo that I have seen the real thing.
Echo is a song about admiration and the small, simple things that
make two people emotionally invested in the other person. The song was
written during the band’s stay in a beachside abode in Malibu,
California, from where they found inspiration for the song. The song’s
overall sound is ambient and appropriate to play during hang-outs… and
make-outs.
#9 True Love Waits by Radiohead
Album: I Might be Wrong: Live Recordings (2001)
For: When you want the one you want to stay with you.
Album: I Might be Wrong: Live Recordings (2001)
For: When you want the one you want to stay with you.
Memorable line: I’m not living, just killing time. Your tiny hands, your crazy, kitten smile.
“True Love Waits” is a Radiohead fan favorite. Its
minimalistic-acoustic instrumentation paired with Thom Yorke’s emotive
vocals makes this song perfect for those lone moments together on a road
trip. As the title implies, the song narrates the singer’s entreating
message to stay with him.
#10 Crash Into Me by Dave Matthews Band
Album: Crash (1996)
For: Hinting that you’re teasingly obsessed with someone and that you watch them from afar.
Album: Crash (1996)
For: Hinting that you’re teasingly obsessed with someone and that you watch them from afar.
Memorable line: Sweet like candy to my soul, sweet you rock and sweet you roll
This song’s lyrics is somewhat questionable due to its voyeuristic
theme, but listening to the track and how Dave Matthews sang it makes it
sound like the ideal love song. The steady acoustic rhythm of “Crash
Into Me” makes it a good choice for ambient music, if you’re planning
to get intimate with someone.
With 10 songs now added to your musical arsenal, you’re now
equipped with different songs to dedicate to the object of your desires,
no matter the occasion. If you know any other songs that are perfect
for certain situations, let us know in the comments below!