Ask any loving couple and they will tell you how they still feel the magic that first brought them together. So do you feel the same for your girlfriend or your relationship seems to be fizzling out? Read on for the signs:
1. You don’t get butterflies in your stomach any more
This is the first sign that your relationship is towards the fag end. As a couple, if you don’t get that feeling of attraction or the same goosebumps that once brought the 2 of you close, then your mating is sure to end soon.
2. You can’t think of the last time when you and your girlfriend were not fighting
This is a big red flag. We form relationships so that we are happy and if your girlfriend and you cannot think of a day that goes without bickering with each other, then sit up and take notice.
3. You have been canceling a lot of dates lately
How can you cancel a date with your beloved? It’s the same girl who got you weak in your knees. If this is your case, then you probably are losing interest in your girlfriend or vice versa.
4. Your relationship serves as a bad example to others
If you find your friends citing you while talking of troubled relationships, then you need to do a reality check. Your friends can’t help but notice that you are not happy.
5. Your communication is tapering
From a dozen calls a day, it has come to 1 or just 2 and those are just for the sake of it. Simply bearing the tag ‘committed’ is not going to get you anywhere. If you think there’s a communication gap between the 2 of you and you can’t speak your mind out, then it is a clear sign that the relationship is going no where.
6. You sigh at the sight of happy couples
You tend to see the negative part of being a happy couple rather than the positive. That’s because, your life with your boyfriend seems too complicated and troubled.
7. You hurl abuses at each other
There are certain unwritten rules of mating and one of it is respect. There is no love without respect. If you find yourselves bad mouthing each other in every other situation or using derogatory words for each other, then please call it quits as soon as possible. Physical abuse is just a step away.
8. No one takes the effort
It is natural for one of you to argue at some point of time, but if the other person doesn’t try to reconcile soon, then it shows that you are not important to the other. Being in a relationship is a responsibility. Both the involved parties have to learn to compromise and forgive and forget. If neither of you initiate a conversation after a bitter fight, it shows just one thing, that neither of you are interested.
1. You don’t get butterflies in your stomach any more
This is the first sign that your relationship is towards the fag end. As a couple, if you don’t get that feeling of attraction or the same goosebumps that once brought the 2 of you close, then your mating is sure to end soon.
2. You can’t think of the last time when you and your girlfriend were not fighting
This is a big red flag. We form relationships so that we are happy and if your girlfriend and you cannot think of a day that goes without bickering with each other, then sit up and take notice.
3. You have been canceling a lot of dates lately
How can you cancel a date with your beloved? It’s the same girl who got you weak in your knees. If this is your case, then you probably are losing interest in your girlfriend or vice versa.
4. Your relationship serves as a bad example to others
If you find your friends citing you while talking of troubled relationships, then you need to do a reality check. Your friends can’t help but notice that you are not happy.
5. Your communication is tapering
From a dozen calls a day, it has come to 1 or just 2 and those are just for the sake of it. Simply bearing the tag ‘committed’ is not going to get you anywhere. If you think there’s a communication gap between the 2 of you and you can’t speak your mind out, then it is a clear sign that the relationship is going no where.
6. You sigh at the sight of happy couples
You tend to see the negative part of being a happy couple rather than the positive. That’s because, your life with your boyfriend seems too complicated and troubled.
7. You hurl abuses at each other
There are certain unwritten rules of mating and one of it is respect. There is no love without respect. If you find yourselves bad mouthing each other in every other situation or using derogatory words for each other, then please call it quits as soon as possible. Physical abuse is just a step away.
8. No one takes the effort
It is natural for one of you to argue at some point of time, but if the other person doesn’t try to reconcile soon, then it shows that you are not important to the other. Being in a relationship is a responsibility. Both the involved parties have to learn to compromise and forgive and forget. If neither of you initiate a conversation after a bitter fight, it shows just one thing, that neither of you are interested.
