The ending stages of a relationship are never pleasant. It’s mostly one person who knows and wants it to come to an end while the other person may be caught unawares, or may be feeling it too but hasn’t initiated the break up yet.
1.Talk it out
As difficult as it is to start a relationship, it’s doubly hard to end one. Make your partner sit down and take out the sensitive topic of breaking up. The best way to convey or resolve anything is to talk it out.
2.Write it down
Sometimes people feel freer to explain what they think in the form of written words. You can write a letter explaining the need to end a stagnant relationship and hand it over to your soon to be ex.
3.Explain the reasons clearly
Don’t be vague and end it in a hurry. The other person deserves an explanation with clear reasons.
4.Don’t keep in contact for a while
Although exes can be friends, it’s always wise to renew the friendship after a couple of months or so and give each other some breathing space. Don’t contact each other till you feel you both have recovered enough from the break up.
5.Don’t start a fight
Don’t just start putting blames and accusations on each other. Fighting and arguing never helps matters and the break up would end on a nasty note with lots of bad blood.
6.Don’t involve non relevant things
While citing reasons for the relationship not working out, don’t add irrelevant matters to give your argument more weightage. It’s a very kiddish tactic.
7.Say it face to face
Ending a chapter of your life that you once held in great esteem, over a phone call or message is not graceful at all. One should always deal with things of the heart face to face.
8.Be calm
You may face agitation, arguments, tears or cuss words and insults from the other person if the break up isn’t mutual. You should maintain your calm at all times and try to pacify them and make them see your viewpoint. You are anyway hurting them by breaking up so there would be no point in adding salt to wounds.
1.Talk it out
As difficult as it is to start a relationship, it’s doubly hard to end one. Make your partner sit down and take out the sensitive topic of breaking up. The best way to convey or resolve anything is to talk it out.
2.Write it down
Sometimes people feel freer to explain what they think in the form of written words. You can write a letter explaining the need to end a stagnant relationship and hand it over to your soon to be ex.
3.Explain the reasons clearly
Don’t be vague and end it in a hurry. The other person deserves an explanation with clear reasons.
4.Don’t keep in contact for a while
Although exes can be friends, it’s always wise to renew the friendship after a couple of months or so and give each other some breathing space. Don’t contact each other till you feel you both have recovered enough from the break up.
5.Don’t start a fight
Don’t just start putting blames and accusations on each other. Fighting and arguing never helps matters and the break up would end on a nasty note with lots of bad blood.
6.Don’t involve non relevant things
While citing reasons for the relationship not working out, don’t add irrelevant matters to give your argument more weightage. It’s a very kiddish tactic.
7.Say it face to face
Ending a chapter of your life that you once held in great esteem, over a phone call or message is not graceful at all. One should always deal with things of the heart face to face.
8.Be calm
You may face agitation, arguments, tears or cuss words and insults from the other person if the break up isn’t mutual. You should maintain your calm at all times and try to pacify them and make them see your viewpoint. You are anyway hurting them by breaking up so there would be no point in adding salt to wounds.
