So you’ve touched adulthood and before you know it, your near ones and even your girlfriend feels that wedding bells should ring soon. But, are you ready to take the plunge? Read on for the top signs that you are not ready for marriage as yet:
1. You have a tendency to postpone things
Be it something as simple as shopping with your girlfriend, you tend to pass it on for the future. In simple words, you run away from responsibility. If negligence is in your blood, then marriage is not for you.
2.You have not committed to your girlfriend as yet
Your relationship has reached a very intimate level, but the moment your girlfriend screams marriage, you get turned off. Remember, the fact that you have still not committed to your girlfriend shows that you do not see her as your future wife.
3. You don’t believe in the concept of marriage
The idea of tying the knot grosses you out. You feel it’s an unnecessary investment with no gain. Moreover, you can never imagine that you’ll ever be able to devote an entire life to a single woman.
4. You have a mountain of debt behind you
Spare the girl, please. Your life is in a complete mess. So make sure you clear all your financial vows before letting a new girl into your sinking ship.
5. You feel parental pressure
You should be marrying a person because you love him or her and not because your parents are forcing you to do so. Remember, it’s not just your life in question, but a girl’s life is at stake too. If you are feeling pressured, trust your instincts and explain the situation to your parents clearly.
6. You don’t get the urge
Marriage is a beautiful relationship and if you believe in this notion, only then are you ready for commitment. You need to get butterflies in the stomach thinking of a beautiful wife and your life thereafter, which will ultimately get you into the nuptial mood. If you don’t experience such feelings, then marriage can wait.
7. You hate parenting
You are aware that marriage will sooner or later lead to parenting and you want to escape that situation by all means. Instead of marrying a person and then telling him or her regarding your beliefs, it’s better you think a thousand times before committing yourself to marriage.
8. Your relationship with your parents is unbreakable
If you think your girlfriend will not be well accepted by your parents and you are not brave enough to take things further without your parents’ support, then you are clearly having second thoughts regarding your relationship, aren’t you?
9. You are not independent
Marriage is all about independence. If you still feel like the same momma’s boy who can’t imagine a life without parents and near ones, then marriage would surely be miles away.
10. You do not have a secure job
A job is a pre-requisite. You are definitely not ready for marriage if you’re not sound financially.
11. You are confused about your sexual orientation
This is very crucial. Many marriages have gone awry as one of their partners was not sure of his or her preference. Your decision can either make or break a girl’s life. So, be very diligent and take a firm decision.
1. You have a tendency to postpone things
Be it something as simple as shopping with your girlfriend, you tend to pass it on for the future. In simple words, you run away from responsibility. If negligence is in your blood, then marriage is not for you.
2.You have not committed to your girlfriend as yet
Your relationship has reached a very intimate level, but the moment your girlfriend screams marriage, you get turned off. Remember, the fact that you have still not committed to your girlfriend shows that you do not see her as your future wife.
3. You don’t believe in the concept of marriage
The idea of tying the knot grosses you out. You feel it’s an unnecessary investment with no gain. Moreover, you can never imagine that you’ll ever be able to devote an entire life to a single woman.
4. You have a mountain of debt behind you
Spare the girl, please. Your life is in a complete mess. So make sure you clear all your financial vows before letting a new girl into your sinking ship.
5. You feel parental pressure
You should be marrying a person because you love him or her and not because your parents are forcing you to do so. Remember, it’s not just your life in question, but a girl’s life is at stake too. If you are feeling pressured, trust your instincts and explain the situation to your parents clearly.
6. You don’t get the urge
Marriage is a beautiful relationship and if you believe in this notion, only then are you ready for commitment. You need to get butterflies in the stomach thinking of a beautiful wife and your life thereafter, which will ultimately get you into the nuptial mood. If you don’t experience such feelings, then marriage can wait.
7. You hate parenting
You are aware that marriage will sooner or later lead to parenting and you want to escape that situation by all means. Instead of marrying a person and then telling him or her regarding your beliefs, it’s better you think a thousand times before committing yourself to marriage.
8. Your relationship with your parents is unbreakable
If you think your girlfriend will not be well accepted by your parents and you are not brave enough to take things further without your parents’ support, then you are clearly having second thoughts regarding your relationship, aren’t you?
9. You are not independent
Marriage is all about independence. If you still feel like the same momma’s boy who can’t imagine a life without parents and near ones, then marriage would surely be miles away.
10. You do not have a secure job
A job is a pre-requisite. You are definitely not ready for marriage if you’re not sound financially.
11. You are confused about your sexual orientation
This is very crucial. Many marriages have gone awry as one of their partners was not sure of his or her preference. Your decision can either make or break a girl’s life. So, be very diligent and take a firm decision.
