If you are attracted to a girl, it is natural for you to feel like expressing it to her at some point. Take some tips on how you can subtly let a girl know that you are interested in her without making it too obvious or leaving her red faced.
1. Make eye contact and greet her warmly
If you want to send a girl a signal that you are interested in her, greet her extra warmly when you see her. Make a lot of eye contact with her and let your voice carry a cheery bounce. She should know that you are very happy to see her.
2. Introduce yourself uniquely
If you don’t know your crush too well yet, you may have an opportunity to introduce yourself to her and make an impression. Don’t let your introduction be as bland as saying hello and following it up with your name. You may want to say something that makes her break into a smile, such as ‘Hi, I’m John and I’m quite interested in the book that you are reading.’
3. Say good things about her to a common friend
If you share a common friend with your crush, use him/her to your advantage. Strategically convey good things about your crush to your common friend and let time take its course. That friend is bound to pass on your words to the girl you are interested in.
4. Offer her help
Women are known to like chivalrous men who open doors and pull chairs for them. If you find your crush carrying heavy weight, arguing at the counter of a store or having trouble with her computer, offer help and gain some brownie points.
5. Make small talk to her by judging what she likes
If you see that she has an iPhone, talk to her about interesting apps that you can help her download. If you overhear your crush taking a vet’s appointment on the phone, subtly start chatting about how much you love animals. The point is to act by observing and picking up insights about her to start engaging conversations.
6. Don’t show any romantic or flirtatious inkling upfront
Your intention of getting your crush to like you back should be latent and hidden. The moment the lady in question gets a whiff that you are trying to woo her, there may be a weird vibe to your conversations. Be cool and slowly open up your flirtatious side as the conversation picks up.
7. Pick up small details from her conversation
God is in the details and this proverbial saying couldn’t hold truer in the case of a guy who wants to show a girl that he is interested in her. Make a mental note of all the trivial details that she leaves in her conversations. Pick up on those details and find your chance to offer help or advice.
8. Compliment her
One of your safest bets to woo a girl is to give her compliments. If you give your crush a sweet, genuine compliment about her personality or her looks without making it sound corny, she may be delighted.
9. Pick the right time to say that you like her
Successfully telling a girl that you like her will require you to get your timing right. For example, if her arms are crossed, she may be tensed thinking about an important issue. You may not want to pick up a flirtatious conversation with her at that time. If you catch her humming a tune with headphones plugged in her ears, she may be in a pleasant mood to chat with you. Picking the right time to talk to her can completely change your luck.
10. Show restraint and be patient
If you know your crush reasonably well and if you have already left enough hints that you like her, it may be time for you to pause and watch. If you overdo your effort, you will come across as a desperate guy. Think about it like this – you have planted the seeds, now you must wait for the flowers to bloom at their own pace.
1. Make eye contact and greet her warmly
If you want to send a girl a signal that you are interested in her, greet her extra warmly when you see her. Make a lot of eye contact with her and let your voice carry a cheery bounce. She should know that you are very happy to see her.
2. Introduce yourself uniquely
If you don’t know your crush too well yet, you may have an opportunity to introduce yourself to her and make an impression. Don’t let your introduction be as bland as saying hello and following it up with your name. You may want to say something that makes her break into a smile, such as ‘Hi, I’m John and I’m quite interested in the book that you are reading.’
3. Say good things about her to a common friend
If you share a common friend with your crush, use him/her to your advantage. Strategically convey good things about your crush to your common friend and let time take its course. That friend is bound to pass on your words to the girl you are interested in.
4. Offer her help
Women are known to like chivalrous men who open doors and pull chairs for them. If you find your crush carrying heavy weight, arguing at the counter of a store or having trouble with her computer, offer help and gain some brownie points.
5. Make small talk to her by judging what she likes
If you see that she has an iPhone, talk to her about interesting apps that you can help her download. If you overhear your crush taking a vet’s appointment on the phone, subtly start chatting about how much you love animals. The point is to act by observing and picking up insights about her to start engaging conversations.
6. Don’t show any romantic or flirtatious inkling upfront
Your intention of getting your crush to like you back should be latent and hidden. The moment the lady in question gets a whiff that you are trying to woo her, there may be a weird vibe to your conversations. Be cool and slowly open up your flirtatious side as the conversation picks up.
7. Pick up small details from her conversation
God is in the details and this proverbial saying couldn’t hold truer in the case of a guy who wants to show a girl that he is interested in her. Make a mental note of all the trivial details that she leaves in her conversations. Pick up on those details and find your chance to offer help or advice.
8. Compliment her
One of your safest bets to woo a girl is to give her compliments. If you give your crush a sweet, genuine compliment about her personality or her looks without making it sound corny, she may be delighted.
9. Pick the right time to say that you like her
Successfully telling a girl that you like her will require you to get your timing right. For example, if her arms are crossed, she may be tensed thinking about an important issue. You may not want to pick up a flirtatious conversation with her at that time. If you catch her humming a tune with headphones plugged in her ears, she may be in a pleasant mood to chat with you. Picking the right time to talk to her can completely change your luck.
10. Show restraint and be patient
If you know your crush reasonably well and if you have already left enough hints that you like her, it may be time for you to pause and watch. If you overdo your effort, you will come across as a desperate guy. Think about it like this – you have planted the seeds, now you must wait for the flowers to bloom at their own pace.
