With romance in the air, some single men and women find it
difficult to find partners to love.
Speed dating is one such way which can help you find a
partner. It was first introduced by the Rabbi Yaacov Deyo of Aish HaTorah,
which was used to help Jewish singles meet and later marry.
In simple words, speed dating is an event where partners
meet each other and have short series of conversations in a short period of
time.
Many single men and women find speed dating not helpful as
they feel it is not possible to get to know anyone in a frame of 5 to 10
minutes.
Here below is a list of tips to help you make speed dating a
lot more easier.
1.Appearance
Look great to stand out in the crowd. When there is a
speed dating event, there will be a number of single men and women dressed for
the occasion. Make sure that you do not over dress, do not look seductive and
do not put on too much make up as it will turn the man off.
2.Relax
When you go for a speed dating
event, make sure to put on a radiant smile across your face as it is one aspect
that will make the other person comfortable. It is also important to relax and
not get nervous.
3.Body Language
It is important for you to sit up
straight and not slouch. Keep in mind not to fold your arms across your chest
as it will put across a bad impression of you. Relax and sit comfortably to
show your partner that you are ready to mingle.
4.Alcohol
Remember that you have just four to
five minutes to get to know your partner. Do not make a mistake of consuming
alcohol as it might cause harm to your precious time.
5.Conversations
Do not sit dumb. Make an effort to
go up to the opposite sex and begin a conversation. It is important to
socialize. Ask questions that is relevant and which might begin a conversation.
6.Focus
This is the most important speed dating tip. It is always
essential to listen to your partner who is seated before you rather than just
talking about yourself all the time throughout the evening. If this happens,
your partner will get bored and this will not be good.
This speed dating is something new in the dating world. So
it is left up to one to leave a good impression for your partner to select you
to be the love of his/her life.
Remember that he/ she will be meeting other women and men
throughout the evening so keep in mind to make a fantastic appearance with a
positive attitude and the right perspective.
