Flirting is an art and not every man is skilled at it. You may wonder what made the girl reject you and get herself another guy. The answer lies in your approach. Read on to find out some common blunders made by guys in the game of mating:
1. Coming across as desperate
Woman can’t stand guys who are desperate for attention. You need to be self-assured and even if you are very much in love with the girl, you need to give her some space. You will scare off the girl if you come across as needy.
2. Self-pity
You need to show the girl that you are better than the rest. Sadly, most guys do just the opposite. They tell the girl all sorts of sad stories about their lives and believe that she will come and solve all their issues. Guys, girls aren’t aiming to baby sit you and they want a mature and sensible person whom they can deal with on a regular basis. People who think too lowly of themselves are just not in the game.
3. Acting over-friendly
If just a few days have passed by since you met this girl, don’t act over-friendly and request to drop her home or come to her house for dinner. Play it cool. Go slow. Remember patience pays.
4. Getting very tactile
This is a big turn-off. Considering you are still very much in the flirting game, don’t try to act out your love at the first given opportunity. In fact, if you act decent, it will set you apart from other players.
5. Proposing right away
Think about the situation the girl is in currently. Imagine the girl coming out of a funeral and you popping out the question. Don’t be surprised if she storms out the next moment. There are plenty of things to consider before you say the 3 magical words. Do your homework well.
6. Not liking themselves
They say things like, “I am so happy to get a girl like you.” Instead show her that you are the coveted one and she would be in your arms in no time.
7. Being very nervous and boring
Need we mention that girls prefer confident men? While sweaty palms are okay in the first few meetings, if the guy seems on the edge in practically every other conversation with the girl, then it may just gross her out. In a bid to sell themselves, some guys tend to become philosophical which could rather put the girl to sleep.
8. Going overboard while playing hard to get
Remember, there’s nothing wrong in being a challenge to a woman by blowing hot and cold. But, when it goes overboard, the girl may simply not bother to pursue you. Remember there are many available men out there and girls have many options.
1. Coming across as desperate
Woman can’t stand guys who are desperate for attention. You need to be self-assured and even if you are very much in love with the girl, you need to give her some space. You will scare off the girl if you come across as needy.
2. Self-pity
You need to show the girl that you are better than the rest. Sadly, most guys do just the opposite. They tell the girl all sorts of sad stories about their lives and believe that she will come and solve all their issues. Guys, girls aren’t aiming to baby sit you and they want a mature and sensible person whom they can deal with on a regular basis. People who think too lowly of themselves are just not in the game.
3. Acting over-friendly
If just a few days have passed by since you met this girl, don’t act over-friendly and request to drop her home or come to her house for dinner. Play it cool. Go slow. Remember patience pays.
4. Getting very tactile
This is a big turn-off. Considering you are still very much in the flirting game, don’t try to act out your love at the first given opportunity. In fact, if you act decent, it will set you apart from other players.
5. Proposing right away
Think about the situation the girl is in currently. Imagine the girl coming out of a funeral and you popping out the question. Don’t be surprised if she storms out the next moment. There are plenty of things to consider before you say the 3 magical words. Do your homework well.
6. Not liking themselves
They say things like, “I am so happy to get a girl like you.” Instead show her that you are the coveted one and she would be in your arms in no time.
7. Being very nervous and boring
Need we mention that girls prefer confident men? While sweaty palms are okay in the first few meetings, if the guy seems on the edge in practically every other conversation with the girl, then it may just gross her out. In a bid to sell themselves, some guys tend to become philosophical which could rather put the girl to sleep.
8. Going overboard while playing hard to get
Remember, there’s nothing wrong in being a challenge to a woman by blowing hot and cold. But, when it goes overboard, the girl may simply not bother to pursue you. Remember there are many available men out there and girls have many options.
