Couples who have been in a relationship for a long time or those who cannot find much common ground, tend to lose interest in each other. If you want to confirm whether your girlfriend is losing interest in you because of any reason, you may want to check for the following signs.
1. Your girlfriend doesn’t appear to be excited on dates
Have you noticed a significant difference in your girlfriend’s attitude from when you both were dating at the beginning of your relationship and now? Does she appear totally nonchalant even when you plan an exciting date for her? This could be a sign that she is distracted by something or may have found interest elsewhere.
2. Your girlfriend doesn’t answer your call with a smile and a bounce in her voice
No matter how many times couples call each other in a day, they are bound to be happy to hear each other’s voices. If your girlfriend is answering your calls with her usual humdrum tone or if she is giving you monosyllabic replies, it could be an easy catch that she may have lost interest in you.
3. Things that were never important for her before suddenly regain priority
If your girlfriend suddenly seems to be spending more time at work or with her family with the excuse that they are important, there may be something that is beyond what you see. When previously unimportant things take on sudden priority, your girlfriend may be trying to avoid you.
4. Your girlfriend doesn’t notice changes in your personality or appearance
Couples expect each other to spot obvious changes in each other’s looks or behavior. It could be anything from new hairdo, a new tie, the color of a shirt that you would never wear, a different fragrance, a new mobile phone cover, etc. If your girlfriend has stopped noticing these minute changes in you, it could be a sign that she has lost interest in you.
5. She doesn’t dress up for you anymore
You should start getting concerned if you see your girlfriend dressed like a plain Jane every time you both go out together. If she has been like that from the beginning of your relationship, you may choose to ignore it. But if this is a recent development, consider it to be a sign of her dwindling interest because there can be a direct relation between a girl’s state of mind and the clothes she wears.
6. She gets irritated very quickly
A common sign that your girlfriend may exhibit if she is losing interest in being with you is that she will have her swords drawn all the time. You will find her picking fights with you over petty matters, getting frustrated quickly or always talking in her own defense. If she is on tenterhooks all the time for no apparent reason, it may be time for you to be worried.
1. Your girlfriend doesn’t appear to be excited on dates
Have you noticed a significant difference in your girlfriend’s attitude from when you both were dating at the beginning of your relationship and now? Does she appear totally nonchalant even when you plan an exciting date for her? This could be a sign that she is distracted by something or may have found interest elsewhere.
2. Your girlfriend doesn’t answer your call with a smile and a bounce in her voice
No matter how many times couples call each other in a day, they are bound to be happy to hear each other’s voices. If your girlfriend is answering your calls with her usual humdrum tone or if she is giving you monosyllabic replies, it could be an easy catch that she may have lost interest in you.
3. Things that were never important for her before suddenly regain priority
If your girlfriend suddenly seems to be spending more time at work or with her family with the excuse that they are important, there may be something that is beyond what you see. When previously unimportant things take on sudden priority, your girlfriend may be trying to avoid you.
4. Your girlfriend doesn’t notice changes in your personality or appearance
Couples expect each other to spot obvious changes in each other’s looks or behavior. It could be anything from new hairdo, a new tie, the color of a shirt that you would never wear, a different fragrance, a new mobile phone cover, etc. If your girlfriend has stopped noticing these minute changes in you, it could be a sign that she has lost interest in you.
5. She doesn’t dress up for you anymore
You should start getting concerned if you see your girlfriend dressed like a plain Jane every time you both go out together. If she has been like that from the beginning of your relationship, you may choose to ignore it. But if this is a recent development, consider it to be a sign of her dwindling interest because there can be a direct relation between a girl’s state of mind and the clothes she wears.
6. She gets irritated very quickly
A common sign that your girlfriend may exhibit if she is losing interest in being with you is that she will have her swords drawn all the time. You will find her picking fights with you over petty matters, getting frustrated quickly or always talking in her own defense. If she is on tenterhooks all the time for no apparent reason, it may be time for you to be worried.
