It is easy to be a lovable boyfriend. But, the same guys go weak in their knees when it comes to being a nice husband. The fact that you are both in a more intimate and responsible stage of your relationship should most certainly make you a better person. Women feel blessed when they have a caring husband by their side. So do you wish to indeed be the better half in your wife’s life? Read on:
1. Step into her shoes occasionally
Unless you are a cook, she would love it if you would surprise her on random occasions by cooking for her. It shows an effort on your part and she would enjoy it to the core. Moreover, things could get humorous if you were to make some silly blunders while cooking. This could be the best treat for her after she returns home tired from work.
2. Let her meet her friends and family often
This will give her a true sense of freedom and she would thank you genuinely for it. Your wife will feel very comfortable in her day-to-day activities if you allow her to interact with her friends and family. In fact, there’s no question of allowing her, you just need to let her live her life, that’s it.
3. Please her
Even if you have surpassed the honeymoon stages, your wife would love the fact that you find her appealing. You can show this only when you shower her with affection. Show off your naughty side and she will definitely have the time of her life.
4. Be responsible
Remember, this is not the bonding phase, where you buy her gifts and keep her satisfied. You need to make sure that the house is properly furnished, the bills are paid on time and loans and other banking formalities are taken care of. You have to work hard to let your wife enjoy all the luxuries of life.
5. Don’t dominate her
There may be certain instances when you have the last word. Though there’s nothing wrong with that, let her express her opinion freely. After all, you both are equal partners and there’s no room for any sort of hierarchy here.
6. Discuss about pregnancy
As soon as you feel the time has come for a baby to step into your lives, both of you can express your perspective. However, don’t force your decisions on her. If your wife wants to concentrate on her career for some years, let her do so. Don’t worry; you have an entire lifespan to plan for a baby. If parental pressures are disturbing you, the two of you can discuss it with the respective people.
7. Love her unconditionally
There will be plenty of occasions when you may not like the way she behaved. Ups and downs are a part and parcel of life. But, the underlying love should never ever fade away. Even when the 2 of you have a fight, don’t take a long time to reconcile with her. Fights should be a matter of a couple of minutes and nothing more than that.
8. Respect her
Just because she has become your wife, don’t take her for granted. Respect her. Even more than love, it is respect that will hold the relationship for the eons to come.
9. Be a friend
Problems arise when one of the partners cannot express their feelings to the other person. Any kind of secrecy is not a good sign. You need to make your wife feel so comfortable that she can share all sorts of things with you. Don’t let the friendship die ever.
1. Step into her shoes occasionally
Unless you are a cook, she would love it if you would surprise her on random occasions by cooking for her. It shows an effort on your part and she would enjoy it to the core. Moreover, things could get humorous if you were to make some silly blunders while cooking. This could be the best treat for her after she returns home tired from work.
2. Let her meet her friends and family often
This will give her a true sense of freedom and she would thank you genuinely for it. Your wife will feel very comfortable in her day-to-day activities if you allow her to interact with her friends and family. In fact, there’s no question of allowing her, you just need to let her live her life, that’s it.
3. Please her
Even if you have surpassed the honeymoon stages, your wife would love the fact that you find her appealing. You can show this only when you shower her with affection. Show off your naughty side and she will definitely have the time of her life.
4. Be responsible
Remember, this is not the bonding phase, where you buy her gifts and keep her satisfied. You need to make sure that the house is properly furnished, the bills are paid on time and loans and other banking formalities are taken care of. You have to work hard to let your wife enjoy all the luxuries of life.
5. Don’t dominate her
There may be certain instances when you have the last word. Though there’s nothing wrong with that, let her express her opinion freely. After all, you both are equal partners and there’s no room for any sort of hierarchy here.
6. Discuss about pregnancy
As soon as you feel the time has come for a baby to step into your lives, both of you can express your perspective. However, don’t force your decisions on her. If your wife wants to concentrate on her career for some years, let her do so. Don’t worry; you have an entire lifespan to plan for a baby. If parental pressures are disturbing you, the two of you can discuss it with the respective people.
7. Love her unconditionally
There will be plenty of occasions when you may not like the way she behaved. Ups and downs are a part and parcel of life. But, the underlying love should never ever fade away. Even when the 2 of you have a fight, don’t take a long time to reconcile with her. Fights should be a matter of a couple of minutes and nothing more than that.
8. Respect her
Just because she has become your wife, don’t take her for granted. Respect her. Even more than love, it is respect that will hold the relationship for the eons to come.
9. Be a friend
Problems arise when one of the partners cannot express their feelings to the other person. Any kind of secrecy is not a good sign. You need to make your wife feel so comfortable that she can share all sorts of things with you. Don’t let the friendship die ever.
