Your girlfriend or wife may not expect you to shout out her name from the rooftops or jump off a cliff to prove your love for her. But she may like to see some care and concern from your side without asking for it. So what can you do to make your girlfriend feel cared for? Read on to find out.
1. Bring her flowers, chocolates and wine occasionally
No matter how traditional this idea sounds, you can never go wrong with flowers, chocolates and wine. Women have a weakness for these gifts and you will make her day if you surprise her with these goodies.
2. Be in touch with her family if she likes it
Does your girlfriend like that you come over to her place and hang around with her siblings or family? Does she feel happy that you get along well with her parents? If she does, you can show your girlfriend that you care by going that extra mile and keeping in touch with her family.
3. Surprise her by decorating her bathroom for a luxurious bath
Most women would have a smile on their faces the minute they think about spa, aromatherapy or massage. You don’t need to spend a heavy amount by booking an appointment for your lady love at an expensive spa. Simply add a touch of care and concern for your girlfriend by secretly decorating her bathroom with aroma candles, bath accessories, some music and a tub full of bubbles. Help her to relax and unwind.
4. Finish some chores when she least expects you to
Whether your girlfriend has to photocopy a bunch of papers, send some clothes for dry cleaning or finish a project from school, you can put a smile on her face by helping her with these errands. The key here is to do it before she asks you for help.
5. Give her a special gift on an important date
If you can’t afford a diamond ring straightaway, save up for something special and exciting to gift your girlfriend on important days in your relationship. It could be her birthday or your anniversary. The care will not be apparent by the price tag of the gift but by the fact that you put in so much effort to save and plan for it.
6. Cook something for her
Even if you don’t know how to cook too well, an attempt at trying to put something together will make her feel pampered and cared for. Toss a burger, make some noodles, fries or even a smoothie. Make her feel like a princess.
7. Compliment her on an ordinary day
If you compliment your girlfriend when she dresses up for a party, she may not be overwhelmed by it because she may get compliments from others too. Make your compliment special by giving it to her on a regular day when she is dressed simply and she least expects it.
8. Give her a foot massage
Foot massages are known to be very relaxing and the best part is that they are not too complicated. Pamper your girlfriend’s feet with some warm water, foot cream and a scrubber. Watch how happy she becomes with your fifteen minute job.
9. Watch her favorite movies with her
Taking the initiative to rent some of her favorite movies and planning an evening with her will win you lots of brownie points. You may have to strenuously sit through a couple of hours of romantic comedies or chick flicks but it will show her that you care.
10. Put her picture in your wallet, office or car
If you want to strike a chord in your girlfriend’s heart and make her feel loved, place her picture in your wallet and show it to her. If you are not a fan of putting pictures in your wallet, you can even pin one up on the soft board at your office or in your car. The point is to show her that you have done so and make her feel delighted.
11. Leave her love notes
It is good to be a little cheesy sometimes and explicitly express your love to show your girlfriend how much you love and care for her. Put some sticky notes saying how much you love her on the mirror of her closet or wardrobe, on the dashboard of her car or on the top of her laptop case.
1. Bring her flowers, chocolates and wine occasionally
No matter how traditional this idea sounds, you can never go wrong with flowers, chocolates and wine. Women have a weakness for these gifts and you will make her day if you surprise her with these goodies.
2. Be in touch with her family if she likes it
Does your girlfriend like that you come over to her place and hang around with her siblings or family? Does she feel happy that you get along well with her parents? If she does, you can show your girlfriend that you care by going that extra mile and keeping in touch with her family.
3. Surprise her by decorating her bathroom for a luxurious bath
Most women would have a smile on their faces the minute they think about spa, aromatherapy or massage. You don’t need to spend a heavy amount by booking an appointment for your lady love at an expensive spa. Simply add a touch of care and concern for your girlfriend by secretly decorating her bathroom with aroma candles, bath accessories, some music and a tub full of bubbles. Help her to relax and unwind.
4. Finish some chores when she least expects you to
Whether your girlfriend has to photocopy a bunch of papers, send some clothes for dry cleaning or finish a project from school, you can put a smile on her face by helping her with these errands. The key here is to do it before she asks you for help.
5. Give her a special gift on an important date
If you can’t afford a diamond ring straightaway, save up for something special and exciting to gift your girlfriend on important days in your relationship. It could be her birthday or your anniversary. The care will not be apparent by the price tag of the gift but by the fact that you put in so much effort to save and plan for it.
6. Cook something for her
Even if you don’t know how to cook too well, an attempt at trying to put something together will make her feel pampered and cared for. Toss a burger, make some noodles, fries or even a smoothie. Make her feel like a princess.
7. Compliment her on an ordinary day
If you compliment your girlfriend when she dresses up for a party, she may not be overwhelmed by it because she may get compliments from others too. Make your compliment special by giving it to her on a regular day when she is dressed simply and she least expects it.
8. Give her a foot massage
Foot massages are known to be very relaxing and the best part is that they are not too complicated. Pamper your girlfriend’s feet with some warm water, foot cream and a scrubber. Watch how happy she becomes with your fifteen minute job.
9. Watch her favorite movies with her
Taking the initiative to rent some of her favorite movies and planning an evening with her will win you lots of brownie points. You may have to strenuously sit through a couple of hours of romantic comedies or chick flicks but it will show her that you care.
10. Put her picture in your wallet, office or car
If you want to strike a chord in your girlfriend’s heart and make her feel loved, place her picture in your wallet and show it to her. If you are not a fan of putting pictures in your wallet, you can even pin one up on the soft board at your office or in your car. The point is to show her that you have done so and make her feel delighted.
11. Leave her love notes
It is good to be a little cheesy sometimes and explicitly express your love to show your girlfriend how much you love and care for her. Put some sticky notes saying how much you love her on the mirror of her closet or wardrobe, on the dashboard of her car or on the top of her laptop case.
