Getting attention from guys is like a day to day routine for most girls, however, gaining their attention is a tad tougher. While the ladies love being the center of all attention, they don’t mind putting in their time and mental energy for a guy who charms them right. These are some techniques you can adopt to make a great first impression on her and get her curious about you.
1.Maintain subtle eye contact
This is the very 1st step toward gaining her attention. Look at her, albeit subtly and when she looks in your direction maintain 2-3 seconds of eye contact before looking away. Now repeat this after a few minutes. Don’t keep up the gaze for a long time as you don’t want her to freak out. Similarly don’t get shy and look everywhere but at her, this will be of no meaning.
2.Blow hot and cold
Good guys are boring and much as girls love to be chased, they want to be the hunter too sometimes. Even if you are free, don’t be available, ready and waiting for her at all times. Keep her guessing as to whether you will be friendly with her today or in one of your soulful, aloof or busy moods wherein you don’t give her exactly what she craves, some attention.
3.Don’t get talking instantly
Guys who yap and blab out their whole life story in the first few meetings itself don’t have much appeal left to them. The girl would have nothing new to discover about you. So maintain a sense of mystery and go slow on the information sharing to maintain her attentiveness towards you.
4.Have a unique sense of style
Girls love a guy who is a head turner. By that we don’t mean that you look like a magazine cover model, but that you should build a unique style sense that will catch the attention of the ladies. Take for example how Justin Beiber gained millions of girl fans thanks to his different hairdo that stood out.
5.Appear unattainable
Women are curious creatures and want to get what they cannot have. Appear cool and unattainable, maintain an attitude as if you couldn’t be bothered more about the world and this will surely get the fairer sex to wonder what’s on your mind. This does not mean you be icy cold ; be friendly, but also maintain a distance and soon you will be gaining attention from the object of your attention.
1.Maintain subtle eye contact
This is the very 1st step toward gaining her attention. Look at her, albeit subtly and when she looks in your direction maintain 2-3 seconds of eye contact before looking away. Now repeat this after a few minutes. Don’t keep up the gaze for a long time as you don’t want her to freak out. Similarly don’t get shy and look everywhere but at her, this will be of no meaning.
2.Blow hot and cold
Good guys are boring and much as girls love to be chased, they want to be the hunter too sometimes. Even if you are free, don’t be available, ready and waiting for her at all times. Keep her guessing as to whether you will be friendly with her today or in one of your soulful, aloof or busy moods wherein you don’t give her exactly what she craves, some attention.
3.Don’t get talking instantly
Guys who yap and blab out their whole life story in the first few meetings itself don’t have much appeal left to them. The girl would have nothing new to discover about you. So maintain a sense of mystery and go slow on the information sharing to maintain her attentiveness towards you.
4.Have a unique sense of style
Girls love a guy who is a head turner. By that we don’t mean that you look like a magazine cover model, but that you should build a unique style sense that will catch the attention of the ladies. Take for example how Justin Beiber gained millions of girl fans thanks to his different hairdo that stood out.
5.Appear unattainable
Women are curious creatures and want to get what they cannot have. Appear cool and unattainable, maintain an attitude as if you couldn’t be bothered more about the world and this will surely get the fairer sex to wonder what’s on your mind. This does not mean you be icy cold ; be friendly, but also maintain a distance and soon you will be gaining attention from the object of your attention.
