How much ever experienced they may be, going on a date for the first time with someone still makes people nervous and anxious about what is to happen and how they will be perceived by the other person. If you have been wondering why your first dates don’t lead up to second dates then you may be making any of these mistakes.
1.Arriving late
The very first bad quality your date would make a mental note of is the lack of punctuality when you arrive late. No one likes a late comer who makes people wait.
2.Dressing incorrectly
Your appearance is the first thing that your date would notice and as they say, first impression is the last impression. You may be taking it too casually and dressing down in shorts and slippers, something which girls will not appreciate at all considering how much efforts they take to dress up.
3.Going dutch
It’s an unsaid rule that first dates should be paid for by the male. You may be going dutch or even worse, letting the girl pick up the tab, which may be making you a failure in getting second dates.
4.Talking about how many girls you have been with
Never talk or boast about how you are a favorite with girls and how many girls you have been with on a first date. This is bound to send out the wrong signals and annoy your date for she may think you are a playboy who isn’t reliable enough.
5.Looking at other girls
While on a date with a girl, if you can’t stop yourself from looking at other girls in the vicinity, it’s going to reflect badly on your character and intentions.
6.Fiddling with your phone
It is bad manners to be fiddling with your phone in the presence of people who are talking to you and it’s almost like an offense on a date. No one will want to be with someone who is more interested in a gadget than them.
7.Not talking much
A healthy conversation is never one sided and although girls love talking, they want you to initiate topics as well. If you just sit there mutely with nothing or very less to contribute to the conversation then she is going to get bored and finish the meeting as soon as possible.
8.Letting her go alone
Unless you live very far away, there is no reason for you to not drop the girl home after a date, especially if you have bought your car along. Not offering to leave her till her doorstep is considered inconsiderate and not chivalrous.
9.Talking too much
While not talking enough is a put off, blabbing the time away is also not a good sign. Girls love talking and if you are the one doing that the whole time then they will just want to run away from you.
10.Flattering her a lot
True, girls love praise, attention and appreciation. But if you keep flattering her looks every 5 minutes, it’s not going to sound genuine and instead of impressing her you may be annoying her enough to think that you are just a sweet talker.
1.Arriving late
The very first bad quality your date would make a mental note of is the lack of punctuality when you arrive late. No one likes a late comer who makes people wait.
2.Dressing incorrectly
Your appearance is the first thing that your date would notice and as they say, first impression is the last impression. You may be taking it too casually and dressing down in shorts and slippers, something which girls will not appreciate at all considering how much efforts they take to dress up.
3.Going dutch
It’s an unsaid rule that first dates should be paid for by the male. You may be going dutch or even worse, letting the girl pick up the tab, which may be making you a failure in getting second dates.
4.Talking about how many girls you have been with
Never talk or boast about how you are a favorite with girls and how many girls you have been with on a first date. This is bound to send out the wrong signals and annoy your date for she may think you are a playboy who isn’t reliable enough.
5.Looking at other girls
While on a date with a girl, if you can’t stop yourself from looking at other girls in the vicinity, it’s going to reflect badly on your character and intentions.
6.Fiddling with your phone
It is bad manners to be fiddling with your phone in the presence of people who are talking to you and it’s almost like an offense on a date. No one will want to be with someone who is more interested in a gadget than them.
7.Not talking much
A healthy conversation is never one sided and although girls love talking, they want you to initiate topics as well. If you just sit there mutely with nothing or very less to contribute to the conversation then she is going to get bored and finish the meeting as soon as possible.
8.Letting her go alone
Unless you live very far away, there is no reason for you to not drop the girl home after a date, especially if you have bought your car along. Not offering to leave her till her doorstep is considered inconsiderate and not chivalrous.
9.Talking too much
While not talking enough is a put off, blabbing the time away is also not a good sign. Girls love talking and if you are the one doing that the whole time then they will just want to run away from you.
10.Flattering her a lot
True, girls love praise, attention and appreciation. But if you keep flattering her looks every 5 minutes, it’s not going to sound genuine and instead of impressing her you may be annoying her enough to think that you are just a sweet talker.
