The first and foremost dating tip is to be very careful
about what you say. You can never take back your words and if you have said it
to a women, then there is not even the faintest possibility of it being
forgotten. Thus, men should remember to be very careful when they say something
to women and more so when they ask questions.
Keeping this in mind David DeAngelo, has written a list of
10 top dating tips in his book "Double Your Dating", to guide men on
what they should never say to women. According to the author, it is better to
be careful before you speak than regretting about what you said afterwards.
Lets look at the dating tips.
1. Never ask for a kiss. Asking for a kiss, makes a man look
like a boy and women like to be along with a man. Even if she is polite at your
request, she might not mean it actually. Let the kiss happen naturally, in the
course of time as the relationship grows.
2. Don't ask her whether she would like to go for a date. A
women likes a man of authority and women also love surprises. Thus, you should
just invite her and let it turn out to be the most memorable date. She would
love the surprise and your by the end of the day you would have set a good
impression.
3. Never boast of your richness or status. This never
impresses a girl, rather bores her to the core. A women always respects a man,
who is down to earth and modest. A modest man according to women are more
reliable.
4. Never entitle her to make a plan. As mentioned earlier,
girls love surprises. Make a plan for her and let it be exotic. This is your
chance of proving how romantic and lovable you are.
5. Don't pester her by asking what she thinks of you. This
really puts her off. If she likes you, she will surely drop cues and it's your
caliber to understand them. Assume that she like you. If you are sure, it will
make her sure.
6. Don't force her to answer calls or messages. She will
accept you to do so but if you don't you will prove yourself to be a chilled
out man and one who, has self-respect. Boys who prove themselves to be
submissive, are not respected.
7. Don't ask about her past. She will tell you as she get
comfortable. Asking her might put her off or make her feel insecure. This will
also show your insecurity.
8. When one date is over, don't post a question about the
next one. This will show you to be over excited. Be patient and let her wait
for you to ask.
9. Avoid length conversation. Maintain the eagerness. It will
keep your relationship exciting.
10. Be secured with her guy friends. Your insecurity will
not be taken as care but as threat to her freedom.
These ten dating tips will ensure a good relationship
further and also grow respect for each other.