In a relationship there has to be a lot of understanding,
love , care and most of if you want a relationship to grow to newer heights it
depends on the both of you to make it reach that level.
There are many types of relationships that couples opt for,
many are uncertain,in a lot of ways. For instance, a long distance relationship
is difficult to handle , but it depends on ones own self to make the
relationship an easy task, unless you yourself take a leap forward in making
your relationship work , it will, otherwise... You know what comes after that.!
Circumstances are such that you cant help , but to favor
your own nest at times. Everyone has dreams to follow, goals to achieve in life
and so they go ahead and try to achieve it on their own, following which they
leave the country for sometime to get better prospects or it might even be for
various other reasons too.
If you are in a long distance relationship, here are some of
the tips you need to follow to make it work:-
- Before you start on a long distance
relationship, make sure the both of you know the parameters of the
relationship, if both are okay with it , then its the first step.
- If making a call everyday is expensive for you ,
there are many other ways where you can communicate with your partner.
Faxes, emails, Skype etc, so make it a point to get in touch with him /
her everyday. Start writing love letters, its even more romantic.
- Do things together, if you cant meet . Then make
it a point to plan a reunion, so the wait will keep you busy and it will
increase the excitement as well.
- Sharing is the most important, keep your partner
informed about how your day went,your activities etc, this will only help
to bring the relationship together and not thrive.
- Trust in one another, suspicion always seems to
build in a relationship, so its better to trust your partner and be open
to each other no matter what. Honesty always pays off.
- Give them something that reminds them of you, so
that when you miss your partner, you can always hold onto that object and
think of them. This will provide comfort, happiness and of course it will
bring a smile to your face.
- Talking about the future is really important in
a long distance relationship as it helps you to become more into each
other. It is an assurance that you are with each other for the long run
and not just temporary.
- Being positive is another important thing that
you must follow in a long distance relationship, having a negative mind
will only influence your partner and thus will build on negativity which
might be bad for the relationship.
Remember, it doesn't mean if you are thousands of miles
apart your relationship will not work, it takes two hands to clap and the
interest that each one individually takes makes the relationship to grow.
Nothing is impossible, a long distance relationship should be a challenge for
you to keep in mind.