'Love', a very strong and intimate word that each of us has come
across in life. In today's society most of the youngsters believe in the
saying, 'Love is Blind', which makes parents furious over this thought.
However, there are a handful of youngsters who seem not to believe in this term
as the road of love can either be dangerous or simply not their path to walk
on! For those of you who strongly believe that Love is Blind, its time to open
up your eyes and face reality.
Let me share with you a few live examples on why I personally feel
that the saying,'Love Is Blind' should not be inculcated in life.
Example 1
She lived a perfect life at home wrapped
around with so much of parental love, until one day she found 'her man', which
was according to her a match made in heaven. Rejected from parents after they
learnt of her relationship, she decided to elope with her so called true love
and marry, to live happy. But today, her life is a living hell! No experience
of happiness as it is covered with eternal fire which can never be doused until
she walks away from the marriage.
Example 2
A friend of mine, had this particular
glow every time she would see him next to her college gate until one fine day
their eyes met and alas! fell head over heels in love with each other. Little
did she know how her life would turn out to be, she gave way for marriage , had
four children and at present stays in one of the most popular slums in India
Example 3
Do you believe that Love is Blind when it
comes to age? And is Age difference in a relationship, important? Of course it
is, according to a few people, they say that when the man is older you tend to
show him more respect and while she is younger she is definitely given that
extra attention, something a woman always craves for in almost all
relationships! Age difference in a relationship is important because as time
goes by, there is good understanding and a lot more regard for the older
person. A close one in the family believer of , Love is blind , got married to
a man 15 years older to her and though there is great respect for him, however
there is certainly no understanding and a great lack of trust because of this
wide age gap. The perfect range when it comes to age difference in a
relationship is for the man to be around 2 to 3 years elder to the lady in
order to enhance the growth of true love holding compassion and respect for one
another.
