Possessiveness in a relationship, is always taken in a negative sense but on a second thought, don't you think a moderate level of possessiveness is needed in a relationship? Though you pretend to be disturbed by his continuous calls when you are outside home or when you are travelling, but hearts of hearts it does make you happy. The feeling of being taken care of and the knowledge that someone there is worried about you is great, thus, an amount of possessives is needed.